Originally Posted by
Candide
Why the hell should he disclose that?
Whom someone's slept with, how many someone's slept with - those are questions that have no good answer and they can only do harm. What good is it to know them? How does it improve his relationship?
Being honest in a relationship is crucial but it's about being honest in how you deal with each other in the current relationship, not digging up dirt in each other's past. You should care about how you're being treated now, not what your partner did in the past.
You try digging these things up, rosy, and you're guaranteed to get two things: a lie and the start of the end of your relationship.
As for women valuing honesty, that's a joke and a half.