Originally Posted by
atlantean0208
Is this really you GuGu-sensei or you just playing with us here today. If that is true, well, I think that is indeed a good thing, I mean settling down. What more can someone who is in love ask than to be united in holy matrimony. Just remember that marriage life is different than love life, because when the love one is always there in front of you, the feeling is not the same anymore.
Love is at it's best when you miss someone a lot, keep you questioning and test your trust on your lover. Certainly that is going to wither when people get marriage because your love one in is in front of you most of the time. There are couples who still madly in love even after marriage, but the percentage is very small. Most of time marriage is filled with fights and arguments LOL. There is this Malay idiom I want to share - "Even your own tongue you bite, sometimes". Don't want to scared you but that things happen all the time, I mean marriage fights. It's a fact of life and marriage need a lot of compromise to be "till death do us part".