Ah Zi's love for Xiao Feng is greater than You Tanzhi's love for her?
Ah Zi digged out her eyes and was willing to die with Xiao Feng by jumping down the cliff. You Tanzhi' love for Ah Zhi was also very deep, he was willing to give up virtually anything just to be by her side.
In other words, is it possible that Ah Zi's love for Xiao Feng is greater than You Tanzhi's love for her? Or was it just her obsession? :rolleyes:
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Im not sure if Ah Zi really loved XF. Could it be that her obsession/love for XF was because he was kind and looked after her. Kinda like a father figure. All her life she had to fight for everthing. Now there is a powerful guy who protected her and loved her (as a sister in law), without asking anything in return. It is not strange that see feel great attachment to him.
YTZ in the other hand loved her very much.
Just a thought: Why didnt XF killed himself when he realize that he killed ah Zhu?
i don't think YTZ loved A Zi either... i thought that was obsessive love.Quote:
Originally Posted by AnhHung
Ah Zi's love was not tested like YTZ. We don't know if Ah Zi would still like XF if she had her iron mask welded to her face.
There is a thin line between obsession and great love. I base my conclusion by the fact that YTZ didnt demand anything from Ah Zi. He just wanted her well and to be near her.Quote:
Originally Posted by 0-0-0
Ah Zi in the other hand demanded all sorts of things from XF, mostly she wanted him to spend time with her.
i don't think obsessive love has anything to do with demand. In fact, i think that by not demanding anything from A Zi, YTZ seems even more obsessed. He is satisfied with everything so long as A Zi is with him.Quote:
Originally Posted by AnhHung
A Zi's love for XF on the other hand, would be what i call possessive love.
Is this a form of love?Quote:
Originally Posted by 0-0-0
yes, obsessive love.Quote:
Originally Posted by AnhHung
Excaxtly, we aggree then; YTZ loved Ah Zi. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by 0-0-0
It was quite hard to say too. Would XLN be willing to pull out her eyes just for YG? What about Huang Rong, Zhao Min or Ren Yingying?Quote:
Originally Posted by CC
It takes courage for one to pluck her/his own eyes, but was it obsession or true love for Ah Zi?
She even tried to drug XF into loving her. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by 0-0-0
:laugh2: Ok... let's not get into the details about what kind of love then.Quote:
Originally Posted by AnhHung
Back onto the topic... I think it's possible that A Zi loved XF as much as YTZ. She did dig out her eyeballs and jump off the cliff with XF. Although A Zi comes across as entirely selfish and spoilt, i think this act at the end of the book does suggest that she did truly love XF
That's probably the only good thing that she had done in her life. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by 0-0-0
Personally, I would have preferred XF to fall for AZ. Initially there wasn't any attraction. Then there was, but he didn't realize it. And finally when she was in danger, he realized. And AZ became better behaved due to his influence.
That would make a better ending that the YTZ story (I skipped it all) and the suicide ending.
I thought that AZ's love for XF was rather selfish and she wanted him to be with her no matter the cost other people had to pay whereas YTZ's love for AZ was pretty selfless. All he cared for was her safety and that she was ok.