In all Jin Yong's wuxia novels, Huang Rong is the most carefully described female character. She is also my most favorite one too,I really want to have a girl friend like that
However she was not the main character in ROCH, she appears to be Guo Jing's lover and supporter.
Being snaped by her father for the first time, young Huang Rong went away, seeking for true love. She got a crush with Guo Jing due to his stupidly generous nature, because of it he could give her - a dirty pitiful guy in his mind at that time - any precious gift. What a coincidence, he came to her exactly when she strongly need someone who cares and what should happen happened.
If there had been no Guo Jing, after a couple months, Huang Rong would have been surely recovered, forgot that shock and come back home.
Guo Jing was superbly lucky, he was emotional enough to sympathy with a begger, but was also nonsensitive enough to not recognize she's a girl.
A person with a nonsense approach would keep going and do his important mission. One who is sensitive enough will know what she really was, hence, could rarely caused Huang Rong a crush, mostly a compassion.
And in ROCH, they are plenty of times that Huang Rong felt so sad about Guo Jing's decisions but sacrificed and obeyed him.
That's why I don't quite agree with the idea that Guo Jing is the most suitable lover/ husband.
What are your guys opinions?