Actually, it's not just GJ. I found that AYF is quite resistant to grudges, strangely enough.
Being able to get revenge is one thing, but trying to seek for revenge is another thing. For example , although knowing they are not East Heretic’s equ al, they still seek revenge from him. But no one t hat I can think of seek revenge from AYF while the y have reason to.
GJ and his first master didn't attempt to seek revenge for the 5 Freaks is just one example.
Chuen Jan Sect (Yau Chu Gei, Ma Yuk, etc) should have seeked revenge from AYF as well, but they didn't.
East Heretic didn't seek revenge from AYF for indirectly causing his wife's second death (based on 1983 LOCH), the death of Mui Chiu Fung, framing him for the death of Chuen Jan brother and 5 Freaks, and for kicking WY down the hill and capturing her. I think East Heretic is extremely forgiving of AYF, considering how he treated his own students.
Yun Ngan Hung Lit never grow grudges on AYF after AYF's refusal to rescue Yeung Hong, although this is reasonable.