as for recommendations...there's and AV one called "Killing me Softly"....it was in Winglins some time ago, and it's the best one I've read so far! ^^
Too bad it seems the author has given up on updating...but I'm still hopeful that one fine day I'll be able to see an update for it! The first few chapters made me cry...*sniff*
also there's this ancient one written by evil_rmm
it's actaully a translation from a novel...it's called "Love me No More"
it made me cry as well....^^