I saw this poll in asianfantics forum and found it interesting. So, I post the question here and see what people here think.
Between Lam Ka Shun (Sammul) in Bar Benders and Chai Foon (Raymond) in La Femme Desperado, who do you feel is the more ideal boyfriend?
I can't choose. Both has his strength and weakness. But I would like to se you gusy opinion.
Here's what I've written in asianfanatics about them.
Lam Ka Shun (Sammul) is too passive. He is very caring to the girl he loves, but he never dares to expess his love for her. How to progress a relationship with him? He doesn't dare to go for the person he loves because he's too concious of social status. But, this non-pushy attitude is also his 'strength'. He let the girl choose and satisfied with seeing the girl happy. He doesn't need to be with the girl. He is satisfied with doing things quietly for her. I also find him pretty down to earth and sensible after he learns to tone down his temper and use his brain instead of fist to solve problems.
Chai Foon (Raymond) is more aggressive. He courageously go after the person he loves without caring for social status or age issues. This is a very amirable trait of his. He's also a very fun and positive person. It's good to have someone like that around u. But like Shun, his strength is also sometimes his weakness. He's too pushy towards Ling (Melissa) sometimes and too immature. His actions can be very reckless, like when he registered for marriage with Ling without Ling knowing. Addition: He loves a girl for 13 years and never wavered in his love.