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    Who do you think is the worst mother in JY canon?

    Some of the bad mothers I can think of are the following.

    Mothers who spoiled their kids rotten
    Huang Rong
    Min Rou
    Bao Xi Ruo

    Mothers who abandoned their kids
    Hu Fei's mom
    Li Wen Xiu's mom
    Yin Su Su
    Miao Ruo Lan's mom

    Mothers who taught their kids weird notions
    Mu Wan Qing's mom

    Killed their own kids
    Madam Ma

    Any other?

    I personally think Li Wen Xiu's mom the worst. She left her daughter with a horse and committed suicide. Yeah, the white horse supposely very loyal and can sense danger and stuff, but it's still an animal.

    Btw, I think the super annoying Min Rou is also up there on top of the worst mom list. She totally spoilt Shi Zhong Yu, but when her husband pointed this out she go and cried "You blame me for spoiling Yu-er rotten? Boo hoo hoo." And she kept on making excuses for SZY.

    Edit: New worst mom - Madam Ma winner.
    Last edited by kidd; 06-13-06 at 05:26 AM.
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    If Huang Rong is a bad mother, how come Guo Xiang turn out different from Guo Fu? Did HR and GJ learn from their mistake of spoiling Guo Fu too much?

    Oh yeah don't you mean Abandoned?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Suet Seung
    If Huang Rong is a bad mother, how come Guo Xiang turn out different from Guo Fu? Did HR and GJ learn from their mistake of spoiling Guo Fu too much?
    Yes. I do think Huang Rong learned from mistake and raised her twins differently from the way she raised Guo Fu. She's much more stricter with the twins. But some still think she's a bad mother because she's too strict to her twins.

    Quote Originally Posted by Suet Seung
    Oh yeah don't you mean Abandoned?
    Thanks for the correction.
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    和諧唔係一百個人講同一番話,係一百個人有一百句唔同嘅說話,而又互相尊重 ~ - 葉梓恩

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ken Cheng
    I thought Wong Yu Yin's mother was pretty warped.
    I have considered her too. Yeah, she's pretty warped as a person on the whole. She's like Li Mo Chou, killing innocent people because she's dump by her man. But how is she as a mother alone?
    Last edited by kidd; 06-13-06 at 01:35 AM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kidd
    Hmm. I have considered her too. Yeah, she's pretty warped as a person on the whole. She like Li Mo Chou. Killing innocent people because she's dump by her man. But how is she as a mother alone?
    Not great, if I remember correctly. Under normal circumstances, Madame Wong was mainly just cold and distant to her daughter. I do kind of remember from DGSD '81 (it's been many years since I've watched it) that if push came to shove, Madame Wong was willing to sacrifice her own daughter to get at the people she hated.

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    Probably Miss Mei Fanggu is the most despicable mother figure ever.
    忽见柳荫下两个小孩子在哀哀痛哭,瞧模样正是武敦儒、武修文兄弟。郭芙大声叫道:「喂,你们在干甚麽?」武 修文回头见是郭芙,哭道:「我们在哭,你不见麽?」

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    What about Madame Ma? She killed her own baby. Now thats just heartless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Suet Seung
    What about Madame Ma? She killed her own baby. Now thats just heartless.
    Opps. I left her out. Now this really is worst than LWX's mom. I'll add her to the list.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PJ
    Probably Miss Mei Fanggu is the most despicable mother figure ever.
    Yes, she's bad. But I don't think she considers Shi Po Tian her son and she's not his biological mother. So, I didn't put her on the list.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Suet Seung
    What about Madame Ma? She killed her own baby. Now thats just heartless.
    This didn't happen in the novel.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Laviathan
    This didn't happen in the novel.
    Oh really?

    Then I guess another mother who spoils their kids is Lin Ping Zhi's mother. I just think he would've turned out differently if his mother didn't baby him so much and actually let him be a man.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Suet Seung
    What about Madame Ma? She killed her own baby.
    When did she do that?

    Edit: Did not see Lav's post before.
    忽见柳荫下两个小孩子在哀哀痛哭,瞧模样正是武敦儒、武修文兄弟。郭芙大声叫道:「喂,你们在干甚麽?」武 修文回头见是郭芙,哭道:「我们在哭,你不见麽?」

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    Quote Originally Posted by PJ
    When did she do that?
    Apparently only mentioned in the TVB1997 adaptation.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Laviathan
    This didn't happen in the novel.
    Aiyah. Need to chance again. Can anyone comfirm this before I made any change? Maybe it's in edi 1 and not in edi 2 or vice-versa.
    Last edited by kidd; 06-13-06 at 02:43 AM.
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    I thought Hu Fei's mom was got killed and not she abandon her child. Correct me if I am wrong as it is what shown in the 1999 tvb's flying fox.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ken2004
    I thought Hu Fei's mom was got killed and not she abandon her child. Correct me if I am wrong as it is what shown in the 1999 tvb's flying fox.
    If I remember correctly, she committed suicide. Please correct me if I'm wrong.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kidd
    If I remember correctly, she commited suicide. Please correct me if I'm wrong.
    yes, she committed suicide after Hu Fei's father died, and basically abandoned her child, even after promising her husband that she would look after him

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    i don't believe Yin Su Su should be up there with the crowd. i always thought it was right for her to commited suicide. she did cause the death of her husband and the crippling of her husband martial brother. she committed suicide to atone for her sins and to free her son from the moral bagage of being the son of a 'villian' to the sect.

    how would ZWJ feel whenever his around the WuDang clan if his mother was still alive? it was only with her death could the dept be paid.

    none of the mothers really stood out to me as extreamly evil or very bad...except for DGSD. now i thought every single mother in there was bad. the most unselfish mother would be the monks mother. for all her killing she was the only one who loved her child above all else. her death was same as the death of Yin Su Su, partly to protect her son from revenge quest from others for being her son.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Linda
    i don't believe Yin Su Su should be up there with the crowd. i always thought it was right for her to commited suicide. she did cause the death of her husband and the crippling of her husband martial brother. she committed suicide to atone for her sins and to free her son from the moral bagage of being the son of a 'villian' to the sect.
    yes, but i think if we venture further into this, we will end up having a moral debate over the right to suicide. in terms of a bad mother, i think that leaving a young boy alone in the world is probably not the best decision, however again, i can support that decision because it is her right, only that it seems irresponsible of her, considering her son. Same goes for HF's mum, and HF was very young when that happened.

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