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    Post Ah Zi's love for Xiao Feng is greater than You Tanzhi's love for her?

    Ah Zi's love for Xiao Feng is greater than You Tanzhi's love for her?

    Ah Zi digged out her eyes and was willing to die with Xiao Feng by jumping down the cliff. You Tanzhi' love for Ah Zhi was also very deep, he was willing to give up virtually anything just to be by her side.

    In other words, is it possible that Ah Zi's love for Xiao Feng is greater than You Tanzhi's love for her? Or was it just her obsession?
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    ...here a poll, there a poll, everywhere a poll...
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    But I like this poll.

    Im not sure if Ah Zi really loved XF. Could it be that her obsession/love for XF was because he was kind and looked after her. Kinda like a father figure. All her life she had to fight for everthing. Now there is a powerful guy who protected her and loved her (as a sister in law), without asking anything in return. It is not strange that see feel great attachment to him.

    YTZ in the other hand loved her very much.

    Just a thought: Why didnt XF killed himself when he realize that he killed ah Zhu?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnhHung
    YTZ in the other hand loved her very much.
    i don't think YTZ loved A Zi either... i thought that was obsessive love.

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    Ah Zi's love was not tested like YTZ. We don't know if Ah Zi would still like XF if she had her iron mask welded to her face.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 0-0-0
    i don't think YTZ loved A Zi either... i thought that was obsessive love.
    There is a thin line between obsession and great love. I base my conclusion by the fact that YTZ didnt demand anything from Ah Zi. He just wanted her well and to be near her.

    Ah Zi in the other hand demanded all sorts of things from XF, mostly she wanted him to spend time with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnhHung
    There is a thin line between obsession and great love. I base my conclusion by the fact that YTZ didnt demand anything from Ah Zi. He just wanted her well and to be near her.

    Ah Zi in the other hand demanded all sorts of things from XF, mostly she wanted him to spend time with her.
    i don't think obsessive love has anything to do with demand. In fact, i think that by not demanding anything from A Zi, YTZ seems even more obsessed. He is satisfied with everything so long as A Zi is with him.

    A Zi's love for XF on the other hand, would be what i call possessive love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 0-0-0
    He is satisfied with everything so long as A Zi is with him.
    Is this a form of love?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AnhHung
    Is this a form of love?
    yes, obsessive love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 0-0-0
    yes, obsessive love.
    Excaxtly, we aggree then; YTZ loved Ah Zi.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CC
    Ah Zi's love was not tested like YTZ. We don't know if Ah Zi would still like XF if she had her iron mask welded to her face.
    It was quite hard to say too. Would XLN be willing to pull out her eyes just for YG? What about Huang Rong, Zhao Min or Ren Yingying?

    It takes courage for one to pluck her/his own eyes, but was it obsession or true love for Ah Zi?
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    Quote Originally Posted by 0-0-0
    A Zi's love for XF on the other hand, would be what i call possessive love.
    She even tried to drug XF into loving her.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AnhHung
    Excaxtly, we aggree then; YTZ loved Ah Zi.
    Ok... let's not get into the details about what kind of love then.

    Back onto the topic... I think it's possible that A Zi loved XF as much as YTZ. She did dig out her eyeballs and jump off the cliff with XF. Although A Zi comes across as entirely selfish and spoilt, i think this act at the end of the book does suggest that she did truly love XF

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    Quote Originally Posted by 0-0-0
    Although A Zi comes across as entirely selfish and spoilt, i think this act at the end of the book does suggest that she did truly love XF
    That's probably the only good thing that she had done in her life.
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    Personally, I would have preferred XF to fall for AZ. Initially there wasn't any attraction. Then there was, but he didn't realize it. And finally when she was in danger, he realized. And AZ became better behaved due to his influence.

    That would make a better ending that the YTZ story (I skipped it all) and the suicide ending.

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    I thought that AZ's love for XF was rather selfish and she wanted him to be with her no matter the cost other people had to pay whereas YTZ's love for AZ was pretty selfless. All he cared for was her safety and that she was ok.
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