Originally Posted by
yukii
click to show/hide spoilers that's the problem with the scenes they cut because it doesn't make sense how did the general choose the princess ! did he really love her or is it just out of guilt
click to show/hide spoilersNah, I think by the end of the series, the general lost any romantic feelings he had previously for Qiao Er. Princess did feel a bit threatened when she saw him comforting the crying Qiao Er, but looks like she didn't have anything to fear. He just happily settled in his comfort zone. I mean, he didn't even think twice. He just went off with princess.
Guess we are all romantics at heart - I keep thinking of Yang Kang and his total devotion for MNC from start to end (even though they were apart for quite awhile) in all LOCH versions, book and TV alike.
Maybe this scenario is more realistic. We all eventually marry whom we are most compatible and comfortable with, with whom we have the same interests and do everything together. As a pugilist, the general is too much of an adventurer/wanderer at heart to stay in one place with Qiao Er and weave. You notice in the end when Qiao Er asked him what he planned to do, he said will roam Jianghu. Only princess can do that with him.
People seldom end up with their first loves y'know.
click to show/hide spoilersThere's something else I also noticed. When princess was in the palace, she was a typical spoilt, pampered lady of leisure fussy about her appearance, decked out in glamourous dresses and jewellery - a gu niang who probably never had to do physical work and has no knowledge of martial arts. But when she started travelling around with the general, she wore tomboy outfits and learned martial arts from the general. From then on they started having a lot in common - interest in martial arts, politics... In contrast, Qiao Er was only interested in weaving.
Y'see, princess became more and more like the general until she became part of him. Notice that as the show progressed, her outfits came to look exactly like the general's and her thoughts, world views, values etc echoed his?
That's what happens in marriage. So I don't think he chose her out of "guilt". He didn't even "choose". He's with her because she's his right arm.