Well, absent-minded and clumsiness is what make an INFP endearing. I lost stuff or forgetting things everyday. That is because our head doesn't want to stop thinking about things, continuously analysing lots of things at the same time, well that is also me.
Yesterday, I'm getting crazy and restless because my friend doesn't reply my text for more than 12 hours. She reply around midnight and tell me that she is asleep for the whole afternoon till midnight.
You see not everything that is wrong is our fault, the problem is for INFP, there are extremely self-critical and thinks that everything that happen is all because of them. Well, that is me too. If there is a text-book example of a crazy INFP then, I'm the main contender
You like to help people, well in that department that is what I also do. I even offer help without people asking for it, money etc. INFP sacrifice themselves to make other people happy. They get satisfaction when seeing happy face of others. For them, money is just money, they just doesn't really care about it and never asking anything or something in return. An INFP is a spoiler, it's good to have an INFP BF, trust me. The bad things is there are just a sorry-arse, emotionally unstable and reactive and extremely touchy
Anyway it doesn't bother me anyway, with all this problem, coz I know now what is the cause. Uncontrolled emotion and extremely sensitive. As an INFP we just need to be relax and learn to do self-calming and think of good/happy taught.
See, as what I've said. I can just write on and on, till morning LOL.