I think that they are too harsh on her- a lot of her detractors says that she was so hypocritical about acting like she's a conservative girl before this issue like saying "no" to kissing scenes and stuff but I'd say it's one to kiss someone whom you don't have a relationship on screen to someone you actually have in private-she wouldn't have imagined that this would happen to her. That this scandal will go out, she just fell in love and that computer just fell to the wrong hands.