People just have different opinions. There are many families that on welfare, and guess what, their wife, husband and kids are still together.
That's why the government get out to help poor people and put so much into welfare money every year.
And if everyone want a rich man, then people that work at McDonald or $8 per hour job would not have any family. Guess what, they all have family and kids. I know many men who work at McDonald for like 20+ years and still happily married.
And not all actresses married millionairs neither, there are many actress western and asian who married actors who make the same as them, or even some married normal people who not even in the entertainment industry.
And there are 7 billions people in this world, even a guy without a job, or poor. I'm sure there are those who stood by their husband side. How many people can we see in this world? Or it is just the Media that we watching, Those actors, high living style people we see.
And people do meet rich people in real life. My friend who went to UCLA, later went to USC to obtained her Medical degree, she met rich guys in her life but she didn't married them. She end up married someone she met before she went to college.
It all come down to your personal preference. There no right or wrong answer, what ever float your Boat. But remember, something float your boat does Not mean it will float other boats.