Is it wrong to mess with another man's wife?

[Ghaleon]

There've been a few...shall we say, unexpected developments on that front most recently.

But this is Radken's thread.

Please, feel free to post when you are comfortable. Your story was quite heartbreaking and memorable.

[Candide]

Ken got laid, let's celebrate!

That rhymes!

[Han Solo]

Any updates?

Han Solo

[levendis d'orange]

The lack of pix doomed this thread to failure.

[PJ]

The lack of pix doomed this thread to failure.

Contrarily, it's already one of the biggest chart toppers.

[remember_Cedric]

Yeah, and people stayed on topic, then goes off topic and made a U-turn, back to the topic again. How lovely. This is one of the very few OD topics with such charm.

[expression]

Well well, I was just planning to sneak by (how predictable ) and BAM! Hot hit by this Hot Pre-Valentine Story. So tell me: how can this Gwanny resist from leaving her name in a classic thread like this huh?

I really don’t have much to say to Radken though, assuming this is all for real. He is 100% willing and beyond advice. There’s nothing he needs to think about; just hang around and lady will decide what more he must do for her.

As for the lady in question, I must say WoW! You’ve got to admit she’s pretty good! Sharp eye for the right target and great perception of anticipated results.

Like good O’ Hillary, she WILL get what she wants. GIRL POWER!
If I have no morals or principles, she’ll surely be my idol.

Take care folks! Loads of love for Valentine,
Expression

[atlantean0208]

LOL gwanny, miss you at SPCNET . You can't resist the temptation do you LOL

[Trien Chieu]

Radken,
Are you around? Do you have anything to update?

[Trien Chieu]

Radken,
Are you around? Do you have anything to update?

[jiang bao]

Why are you being nosy? If he wants to discuss it further, he will return.

[webmaster8753]

Well put yourself in the other guys shoes and you will have your answer.

[KChill]

I consider dating a married woman to be one of the lowest things a guy could do....because if it happened the other way around, and someone was dating your wife, it'd be choking time.

[Trinie]

I consider dating a married woman to be one of the lowest things a guy could do....because if it happened the other way around, and someone was dating your wife, it'd be choking time.

How do you feel about a guy or girl liking another person's girlfriend/boyfriend, not wife or husband but just bf or gf?? Is that something low as well or does it only apply to someone who is married??

[Guo Xiang]

How do you feel about a guy or girl liking another person's girlfriend/boyfriend, not wife or husband but just bf or gf?? Is that something low as well or does it only apply to someone who is married??

I think that's normal... and tends to happen... But the line is drawn at the point at whether you actually butt into the relationship or not.

[xJadedx]

It's ok if you have feelings for someone's boyfriend or girlfriend, since after all, you can't control who you like. but you can control whether or not you're going to do soemthing stupid about it.

[KChill]

How do you feel about a guy or girl liking another person's girlfriend/boyfriend, not wife or husband but just bf or gf?? Is that something low as well or does it only apply to someone who is married??

Nothing wrong with that....unless its like your friends' woman or man....I just think breaking up a marriage is bound to bring down bad karma upon the perpetrator....

[kidd]

It's ok if you have feelings for someone's boyfriend or girlfrien, since after all, you can't control who you like. but you can control whether or not you're going to do soemthing stupid about it.

What if that girlfriend/boyfriend like you back?

I really can't decide. If still not married, both still have a choice to choose another, find the most suitable one to marry. But, if it's a friend's boyfriend/girlfriend, that's a definite 'no'.

[xJadedx]

What if that girlfriend/boyfriend like you back?

I really can't decide. If still not married, both still have a choice to choose another, find the most suitable one to marry. But, if it's a friend's boyfriend/girlfriend, that's a definite 'no'.

If that boyfriend/girlfriend (let's call him/her A for simplicity sake) liked the person (let's call this person B) back, then A should have the decency to break up the relationship he/she is currently in. Clearly, you can't be in a relationship with a person if you like someone else (i.e., B). But B shouldn't do anything to disrupt A's relationship.

As for whether it's a married couple of "just" boyfriend/girlfriend. It doesn't matter to me. You can keep searching for "the one" without having to cheat.

[jiang bao]

If that boyfriend/girlfriend (let's call him/her A for simplicity sake) liked the person (let's call this person B) back, then A should have the decency to break up the relationship he/she is currently in. Clearly, you can't be in a relationship with a person if you like someone else (i.e., B). But B shouldn't do anything to disrupt A's relationship.

As for whether it's a married couple of "just" boyfriend/girlfriend. It doesn't matter to me. You can keep searching for "the one" without having to cheat.

Yeah that's what one SHOULD do, but sometimes some people want everything. They may like the security of the existing relationship while also craving the excitement of the lover. They may also not be sure that they 1) wanna leave the existing relationshp, and 2) that the new one will work out.

I agree with you that they should end the existing r/s if they are out humping others, but that's idealism, and there's reality. Two different things.

A side note... apparently in China, having the brains does get you the hot lady. I had some good looking mainland classmates who were snatched up early and weren't married to exactly good looking hubbies (wimpy looking dudes). Makes me feel like maybe I shoulda stayed in China. Wouldn't have been ostracized for being smart, and mighta actually been respected for being the smartest in the crowd.