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[xJadedx]

She's 27yo with two kids. I known her for over 12 years and she used to be a good high school friend. Two weeks ago I took a vacation with my family down in Florida, and I had no idea she went too (the reason was to drop of her child). She jokingly asked me if we can hang out and I told her no because all my plans are scheduled and my transportation is limited. She got upset and later sent me texts that I ignored because I just want to enjoy my vacation and not read her drama.

Though my yelling and the urge to push her off my car today made me thought about the monster I was...I felt really bad right now.

Yah, your reaction may not have been the most effective one, but it doesn't make her behaviour any less excusable. I'd expect that kind of behaviour from a teenager, not a 27-year-old with kids. I mean, if she can't even understand that you want to spend time with your family on a vacation, then that's a pretty lousy friend. She could have dealt with it a lot better.

[Trinie]

Hey Trinie, sorry to hear that you're having a bad time right now, especially your family...in a way, I'm feeling the same and this is probably my worst day this year for me. I'm not sure if you remember about that female friend of mine but today she came to my office at the end of the day. Before leaving work, she hopped in my car without my approval for a short conversation. The questions she asked me really flip me the wrong way to the point that I opened my door and asked her to leave. She wouldn't leave and that was what pissing me off, and I started to get aggressive, really annoyed, and start yelling at her...still she wouldn't leave my car. I kept telling her that she was really annoying me right now and kept asking her to please leave my car but she wouldn't. I was about to the point where I would push her off my car or crash into the vehicle parked in front of me. I guess she got really upset and mad that she saw this mean side of me and before she left my vehicle, she stole my wallet and took off with her car. Wtf is wrong with girls these days? I found myself running after her car and start smashing the side of her window with my fist as she drove by. That's the end of my friendship for her.

Hey Happy Kadaw,
Thanks for your words of sympathy! I really appreciate it and am so sorry to hear that you are going through a rough time as well. It seems like a lot of us are these days due to the bad economy and all, especially in California. I heard that our state is financially in BIG trouble right now. Yea, I remember her. Is she that same girl that used to like you?? Gosh, is she still bothering you?? Does she have a life or what?? I cannot believe that she would do that to you! She is giving girls a bad name. I don't think you should stereotype ALL girls as being bad like her. Did you ever get your wallet back??? I hope that you STOP being friends with her.. How can she do that to you?? Makes me so mad just reading about it... I hope that you will forget about her and move on with your life...

[Trinie]

She's 27yo with two kids. I known her for over 12 years and she used to be a good high school friend. Two weeks ago I took a vacation with my family down in Florida, and I had no idea she went too (the reason was to drop of her child). She jokingly asked me if we can hang out and I told her no because all my plans are scheduled and my transportation is limited. She got upset and later sent me texts that I ignored because I just want to enjoy my vacation and not read her drama.

Though my yelling and the urge to push her off my car today made me thought about the monster I was...I felt really bad right now.

I cannot believe that she is 27 and has kids!! How can she act the way that she did?? I hope that you stop being friends with her because she seems like a really selfish and inconsiderate person... Even though you may have handled it better, but I don't think you should feel bad about the way you treated her since I think she was asking for it...

[Ghaleon]

Though my yelling and the urge to push her off my car today made me thought about the monster I was...I felt really bad right now

It was just the spur of the moment. Don't blame yourself too much. If you feel bad about it, you can always call her up and apologize. She's a long-time friend right? You could still salvage your friendship if you wanted. Yeah i know how ****ed up those type of girls can be. Too much drama and bs.

[kay &!*]

so ****ing annoyed
i am right.. as always. i am ALWAYS right. god, just ****ing do things my way, then we wouldn't be in this bigass hot mess. SO ****ING IRRITATED.
jesus

[GuGu]

i need help.

[Ghaleon]

what kind of help?

[Ken Cheng]

what kind of help?

This kind:

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[BearBearNweather]

I am just deeply depressed right now due to an in law that has been pissing me off and causing my family and me so many problems. I am also still unemployed right now... I also see that life is really boring.... It is the same old cycle over and over again.... I always wonder what is the meaning and purpose of life?? I get so sick of it....

Is that same woman again right?

I know what u mean about the life of an unemployed because I'm experiencing it right now.

[BearBearNweather]

Why, each and every time when things start to get decent, some bad news have to ruin everything?

[remember_Cedric]

Hey Cedie,
I am just deeply depressed right now due to an in law that has been pissing me off and causing my family and me so many problems. I am also still unemployed right now... I also see that life is really boring.... It is the same old cycle over and over again.... I always wonder what is the meaning and purpose of life?? I get so sick of it....

Is your neck and shoulder ok? My mom's shoulder and neck were bothering her too... She is feeling better now though, thank goodness so I hope that you are as well.

Hey Trinie, I understand how life can suck at times. Usually, it's the closest people (people surrounding your life) that can be the real headache.

Don't fall into the circle of depression, you'll find something for a job. Keep the faith. (I just got out of my mild one, trying to cope with things where it all seem so alien to me.) Have you tried to mix around with friends or reach out to some contact? Sometimes, changes don't come fast enough. It may take some time. Before it comes, you need to go through certain hardships to prepare yourself for it. Well, that's how I felt, through certain experiences. (Not a script from a some drama J/k) Meanwhile, try to participate in activities as you can.

Hmmm, how did you know about that? O_O Thank you! My neck and shoulder pain has gone. I'm glad. I think it's because of the stress and tension at work that I get it though. I find by relaxing your whole body helps. I'm glad your mother is feeling better now, ask her, try to relax down. Life can be a pain, but every pain is a challenge to better self. Take care and don't give up! Especially you have us, in SPCNET, exchanging and sharing problems!
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Rant: That moron from London is such a pampered kid who can't distinguish a water pail from a bin.

[rosely]

All this thingking about future things, things that are prolly not going to work, is not healthy and a waste of time. It prevent us from feeling better as of right NOW!.

Really need to change my world view and follow those saying - "Peel the apple in your hand and not on the tree".

I'm going to watch Bruno this evening. Time to laugh my hearts out and have a good big belly laugh, till I drop. All these useless thinking should stop. Depress life is not healthy.

[Happy Kadaw]

Jaded: That was the most poor handling from me so far. I never felt so uncomfortable talking to someone before, then getting stuck in the car with her made it worst and anger immediately took over when she refused to leave. It was bad timing too, at the end of my work day where all I wanted to do was go home and rest.

Trinie: My gf said exactly the same thing, that I don't need to feel bad because she was asking for it. Yeah she was the same girl that liked me. This whole year, my friend has been telling me that she has been bad. My family dislikes her too. All these stuff gave me a bad impression about her, and the fact that we had nothing in common made me feel very uncomfortable being around her. I wish I can handle better yesturday and explain to her why I had been ignoring her but I really suck at putting my feelings into words. I didn't feel like explaining to her lastnight as she will go on forever. She did return my wallet back afterward and said she won't be seeing me anymorea and I left without saying a word.

Btw, I didn't mean to stereotype all girls like her so my bad on that.

Ghaleon: I do want to appologize for my actions and I don't think any girls should be kicked out from a car. But if I call her back, there will be more crazy drama so I'm gonna leave it with a bad ending.

[jiang bao]

Yesha Mesh. My name a Borat. In Kazakhstan, the favorite hobbies are disco dancing, archery, rape, and table tennis. In America, there are many hobbies too. I find more. Chinqui.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2l0nu6m2cw

[Trinie]

Is that same woman again right?

I know what u mean about the life of an unemployed because I'm experiencing it right now.

Yea, it is the same person.... I am still waiting for her to leave in about another 2 weeks or so... Luckily, she has been gone for this past week due to jury duty. She will come back next week again for her "studying" and then take her test the week after and then LEAVE!! I will be celebrating..

Sorry to know that you are unemployed as well... It really sucks since we are broke and it feels as if we are wasting time.... But don't worry, we will all find a job soon...

[Trinie]

Hey Trinie, I understand how life can suck at times. Usually, it's the closest people (people surrounding your life) that can be the real headache.

Don't fall into the circle of depression, you'll find something for a job. Keep the faith. (I just got out of my mild one, trying to cope with things where it all seem so alien to me.) Have you tried to mix around with friends or reach out to some contact? Sometimes, changes don't come fast enough. It may take some time. Before it comes, you need to go through certain hardships to prepare yourself for it. Well, that's how I felt, through certain experiences. (Not a script from a some drama J/k) Meanwhile, try to participate in activities as you can.

Hmmm, how did you know about that? O_O Thank you! My neck and shoulder pain has gone. I'm glad. I think it's because of the stress and tension at work that I get it though. I find by relaxing your whole body helps. I'm glad your mother is feeling better now, ask her, try to relax down. Life can be a pain, but every pain is a challenge to better self. Take care and don't give up! Especially you have us, in SPCNET, exchanging and sharing problems!
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Rant: That moron from London is such a pampered kid who can't distinguish a water pail from a bin.

Hey Cedie,
Thanks for your words of wisdom and yea, usually the people that are the closest to us seem to hurt us the most. I don't consider my brother's wife close to me and I am glad that she isn't or else she would have screwed me over even more. I will eventually forgive her for all of her bad deeds but I will never forget them. I will remember them so that I will not make the same mistakes again....
Actually, I want to go abroad to work and have been wanting to, but keep running into problems. However, I hope to eventually go since that is my only option now if I want to find a job. I don't want to stuck in America unemployed. I get sick of people asking me because it distracts me and I don't want them to know what I plan to be doing. I totally agree with you and I am glad that I am experiencing hardships in a way since they will help me cope with what is going to come up for me.... I need to go on my adventure... Yea, it is taking time and I need to get back to business soon. Yea, I am trying to enjoy myself while I can because I know that my break will NOT last that much longer... Soon I will be really busy...
I knew about it because you mentioned it... I thought it was such a coincidence since my mom was experiencing arm and shoulder pain too. I am glad that it is now gone and that you are now feeling better. Thanks sweetie and I will listen to you and am really happy to have you and Spcnet!!! You are the BEST! Take care!!

[Trinie]

Jaded: That was the most poor handling from me so far. I never felt so uncomfortable talking to someone before, then getting stuck in the car with her made it worst and anger immediately took over when she refused to leave. It was bad timing too, at the end of my work day where all I wanted to do was go home and rest.

Trinie: My gf said exactly the same thing, that I don't need to feel bad because she was asking for it. Yeah she was the same girl that liked me. This whole year, my friend has been telling me that she has been bad. My family dislikes her too. All these stuff gave me a bad impression about her, and the fact that we had nothing in common made me feel very uncomfortable being around her. I wish I can handle better yesturday and explain to her why I had been ignoring her but I really suck at putting my feelings into words. I didn't feel like explaining to her lastnight as she will go on forever. She did return my wallet back afterward and said she won't be seeing me anymorea and I left without saying a word.

Btw, I didn't mean to stereotype all girls like her so my bad on that.

Ghaleon: I do want to appologize for my actions and I don't think any girls should be kicked out from a car. But if I call her back, there will be more crazy drama so I'm gonna leave it with a bad ending.

Hi Happy Kadaw,
Yea, you really don't need to feel bad...I had a feeling that it was that same girl. She sounds really annoying and I think you are better off not being her friend anymore. It is sad to have end friendships at times, but there are times that you don't have a choice at all. I am glad that she returned your wallet. I think it is good to just leave it at that. Maybe you can now move on and she can now move on....
I know that you did not mean to stereotype all girls as being bad so don't worry. I know that you only said that because you were really mad so it is understandable.

[darkcser]

Hey don't be so mean to the geeks. The Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth you know. Who said geeks doesn't communicate. They need to communicate to buy ticket and foods and stuff and to talk with teachers and lecturers and professors, bus drivers etc.

They are not always living in the basement or the attic (like me, well it's only temporary, not count). They also go out to the market to resupply and get fresh air and other things.

They even got a very sofisticated way of communicating. Klingon, Elven, Aiel Far Dareis Mai hand-talk, Old Tongue (Sa souvraya niende misain ye), binary code.

Egad a WoT reference... I'm glad SoT ended before the author did. What's the Old Tongue from? I feel like I should know but I just can't place it.

[kay &!*]

so why isn't TC banned form spcnet?
or at least, banned from certain sections of the forum.

[Happy Kadaw]

Hi Happy Kadaw,
Yea, you really don't need to feel bad...I had a feeling that it was that same girl. She sounds really annoying and I think you are better off not being her friend anymore. It is sad to have end friendships at times, but there are times that you don't have a choice at all. I am glad that she returned your wallet. I think it is good to just leave it at that. Maybe you can now move on and she can now move on....
I know that you did not mean to stereotype all girls as being bad so don't worry. I know that you only said that because you were really mad so it is understandable.

Hey, I'm actually much better today. The only good thing that made me happy lastnight was my roommate trying to cook pasta for dinner and ended up burning something, setting the alarm on. My neighbor from downstair came out all scared, she's a cute little chinese girl [a graduate student] probably your height or shorter and look alot like Linda Chung...listening to my roommate and her conversation was funny because he used to make fun of her all the time. But lately we just found out that she is going through cancer, and has been wearing her hat...her eyebrows are almost gone too. I'm deeply sad for her but seeing her usually makes my day brighter cuz she always carry a smile around.