I met up with this friend (not that close) over the weekend. We were catching up and the topic changed to personal lives and she mentioned someone had been pursuing her. Of course, I asked more about it. She said she liked him but she rejected him because she isnít sure that it would work out. Now sheís not happy that he hasnít continued to pursue her, which makes her think that she was right to reject him because he wasnít serious about her.
In my head, I was thinking she was nuts, but of course, I didnít put it that way when I reacted to what she said.
I just donít get it, when a man says he likes you, itís not like heís asking you to go to bed with him right there or marry him. Why do some women (typically Asian) take it so seriously? Why not give the man a chance if you like him?
I mean, isnít crazy to reject somebody and then get mad that heís still not pursuing you??? Is that an ego problem or is that just some crazy mind game?