Can one insult bring down years of friendship for you?

[Lucre]

But then, some confrontation will leave a permanent scar.

i know that, but it never stopped me from being confrontational, so long as I think it is necessary. Besides, scars are not neccessarily a bad thing anyway.

[Guo Xiang]

Funny you should bring this up. GX and myself are friends for a bloody decade, and we have very contrasting personality, tastes etc. Almost like, if she like something, she would bet that I would dislike it. And we do talk alot with each other, in fact, we argued alot of times. Even lost count of the times where neither of us wanna give in, and then launched into cold war, making statements like lets not be friends anymore - but when we both cooled down, we will talk it out, and then patch up again. This process happened several times, but the last couple of years arguments rarely lasted too long. In a way we both already knew each other better, and become more tolerant - or maybe already develop an immune system that the stuff that pissed each other off in the earlier years, no longer do so now.

Thanks for putting up with me all these years. I know it's not been easy for you, but I truly appreciate it. ^____^

[ByTmE]

Thanks for putting up with me all these years. I know it's not been easy for you, but I truly appreciate it. ^____^

AWWWWWWW!!! Heart strings....this is the moment where they kiss y'all. All joking aside, it's good to know who will...well put up with you when you're being a b!tch or emo.

[Guo Xiang]

AWWWWWWW!!! Heart strings....this is the moment where they kiss y'all. All joking aside, it's good to know who will...well put up with you when you're being a b!tch or emo.

There are limits though. You seriously don't want someone throwing a chair at you for a second time.

[ByTmE]

There are limits though. You seriously don't want someone throwing a chair at you for a second time.

What??? Somebody threw a chair at you?? Like a REAL CHAIR? Danm, what a heathen...troglodyte.

[Guo Xiang]

What??? Somebody threw a chair at you?? Like a REAL CHAIR? Danm, what a heathen...troglodyte.

To be more accurate, she slammed a chair against the table I was sitting at. Because of a misunderstanding, and because we were both feeling super emo that day. She suffered nonsense from me so I suffered the chair.

[ByTmE]

To be more accurate, she slammed a chair against the table I was sitting at. Because of a misunderstanding, and because we were both feeling super emo that day. She suffered nonsense from me so I suffered the chair.

LoL!! Gosh...that poor chair. To think that it did nothing to either of y'all. That's still kind of scary though. If it happened in front of me, my heart would probably skip a few beats.

[Lucre]

LoL!! Gosh...that poor chair. To think that it did nothing to either of y'all. That's still kind of scary though. If it happened in front of me, my heart would probably skip a few beats.

It's suppose to have that effect; she was lucky; once a guy who offended me' nearly suffered a kick in his face; I stop my leg but he got the message. :-)

I'm a little violent so ppl shouldn't give me' an opportunity to unleash.

[kidd]

It's suppose to have that effect; she was lucky; once a guy who offended me' nearly suffered a kick in his face; I stop my leg but he got the message. :-)

I'm a little violent so ppl shouldn't give me' an opportunity to unleash.

Wow, no wonder you can be so zen in forum. You already unleash your fire in real life.

[Lucre]

Wow, no wonder you can be so zen in forum. You already unleash your fire in real life.

im 'zen' in forum?

there's absolutely no thrill bringing the canons out on 'virtual war' (ie. forums); its just a bunch of pixels ~ ain't see any blood!

(though I think I'm still pretty restrained...till date I have only gotten lodged a complaint once ~ that was in my school days; a classmate was picking on me so I gave him a 'karate-chop' in his arm...the next day the mother went to school and make a fuss, apparently I had 'injured' his arm...I'm not sure how serious it is, but he had to bandage it up.) But that was when I was still quite young...

[PJ]

During elementary school, I pretty much wrecked the friendship that I had with my then-best friend with one insult. Sometimes it is best to keep your mouth shut, especially when you got nothing significant to say.

[Lucre]

During elementary school, I pretty much wrecked the friendship that I had with my then-best friend with one insult. Sometimes it is best to keep your mouth shut, especially when you got nothing significant to say.

someone once told me,

"If what one intends to say is not nicer than the silence, then it's best not to say anything."

[SweetSourSalt]

I believe the worst are serious insults that are disguised as jokes.

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