Page 3 of 8 FirstFirst 12345678 LastLast
Results 41 to 60 of 159

Thread: Spreading the hate...

  1. #41
    Moderator Ken Cheng's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2002
    Posts
    22,642

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by kidd View Post
    I guess it's normal people with normal problems since I don't think you are a weird freak that everybody else hates.
    OK. That's good to know.

    I *seriously* worry about that question, you know...which is probably at the root of all my other problems to begin with.

    I...ah, let's say...had a difficult time establishing social compatibility with my peers during my formative years. Consequently, my sense of self is built on a foundation of quicksand.

  2. #42
    Senior Member yittz's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Posts
    3,943

    Default

    It's not normal to have that much hatred stemming from a wuxia novel/character/concept.
    Member of HYS fanclub -> click here to join group.

    Member of TC fanclub.

  3. #43
    Moderator kidd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Somewhere Out There
    Posts
    13,110

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by yittz View Post
    It's not normal to have that much hatred stemming from a wuxia novel/character/concept.
    Ken already said so last time. YG remind him of the part of himself that he dislike/hate. It's not plainly a dislike for a novel character.
    Last edited by kidd; 02-23-10 at 05:20 AM.
    什麼是朋友?朋友永遠是在你犯下不可原諒錯誤的時候,仍舊站在你那邊的笨蛋。~ 王亞瑟

    和諧唔係一百個人講同一番話,係一百個人有一百句唔同嘅說話,而又互相尊重 ~ - 葉梓恩

  4. #44
    Senior Member yittz's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2005
    Posts
    3,943

    Default

    I thought the difference in outcome is what KC hates. And that triggers hatred in himself, his own flaws and YG in general.

    Once he realises not to focus on YG, but on where he wants to be, he can start moving forward again.
    Member of HYS fanclub -> click here to join group.

    Member of TC fanclub.

  5. #45
    Moderator kidd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Somewhere Out There
    Posts
    13,110

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by yittz View Post
    I thought the difference in outcome is what KC hates. And that triggers hatred in himself, his own flaws and YG in general.

    Once he realises not to focus on YG, but on where he wants to be, he can start moving forward again.
    So, Ken. Heed yittz's advice. Set a goal and focus on it.
    什麼是朋友?朋友永遠是在你犯下不可原諒錯誤的時候,仍舊站在你那邊的笨蛋。~ 王亞瑟

    和諧唔係一百個人講同一番話,係一百個人有一百句唔同嘅說話,而又互相尊重 ~ - 葉梓恩

  6. #46
    Senior Member PJ's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2002
    Posts
    18,377

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by kidd View Post
    So, Ken. Heed yittz's advice. Set a goal and focus on it.
    That would indeed be my recommendation for Ken as well. But it seems, he's too weak right now. He is stuck and going nowhere.
    忽见柳荫下两个小孩子在哀哀痛哭,瞧模样正是武敦儒、武修文兄弟。郭芙大声叫道:「喂,你们在干甚麽?」武 修文回头见是郭芙,哭道:「我们在哭,你不见麽?」

  7. #47
    Moderator Ken Cheng's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2002
    Posts
    22,642

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by yittz View Post
    I thought the difference in outcome is what KC hates. And that triggers hatred in himself, his own flaws and YG in general.

    Once he realises not to focus on YG, but on where he wants to be, he can start moving forward again.
    Quote Originally Posted by kidd View Post
    So, Ken. Heed yittz's advice. Set a goal and focus on it.
    Quote Originally Posted by PJ View Post
    That would indeed be my recommendation for Ken as well. But it seems, he's too weak right now. He is stuck and going nowhere.
    I feel that not "defeating" Yeung Gor by showing the entire world what a false and unworthy "hero" he is - is like admitting defeat and letting him "win." My ego just can't accept that.

    And the Yeung Gor thing is just one aspect of it. You notice in my Wuxia Hate Manifesto that I hate MANY things in wuxia that have NOTHING to do with Yeung Gor at all. It all goes with my worldview and this nagging sense of insecurity I have that nobody respects it.

    That feeds the cycle of anger and hatred.

  8. #48
    Moderator kidd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Somewhere Out There
    Posts
    13,110

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Ken Cheng View Post
    I feel that not "defeating" Yeung Gor by showing the entire world what a false and unworthy "hero" he is - is like admitting defeat and letting him "win." My ego just can't accept that.

    And the Yeung Gor thing is just one aspect of it. You notice in my Wuxia Hate Manifesto that I hate MANY things in wuxia that have NOTHING to do with Yeung Gor at all. It all goes with my worldview and this nagging sense of insecurity I have that nobody respects it.

    That feeds the cycle of anger and hatred.
    Ken, Ken.

    'Not everyone agree with you' ≠ 'nobody respects your worldview'
    什麼是朋友?朋友永遠是在你犯下不可原諒錯誤的時候,仍舊站在你那邊的笨蛋。~ 王亞瑟

    和諧唔係一百個人講同一番話,係一百個人有一百句唔同嘅說話,而又互相尊重 ~ - 葉梓恩

  9. #49
    Senior Member Candide's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2004
    Location
    ( @ )( @ )
    Posts
    4,651

    Default

    Ken Cheng making a thread on hate about himself, news at 11.
    "Anything you can't say NO to is your MASTER, and you are its SLAVE."

    "I disapprove of what I say, but I will defend to the death my right to say it."

  10. #50
    Moderator Ren Wo Xing's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2003
    Location
    Currently DC
    Posts
    6,553

    Default

    Oh god, this again?
    Read the latest chapters of Coiling Dragon at Wuxia World!

  11. #51
    Moderator kidd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Somewhere Out There
    Posts
    13,110

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Candide View Post
    Ken Cheng making a thread on hate about himself, news at 11.
    Actually, it's Linda who made the thread. Ken just replied to it.
    什麼是朋友?朋友永遠是在你犯下不可原諒錯誤的時候,仍舊站在你那邊的笨蛋。~ 王亞瑟

    和諧唔係一百個人講同一番話,係一百個人有一百句唔同嘅說話,而又互相尊重 ~ - 葉梓恩

  12. #52
    Senior Member Candide's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2004
    Location
    ( @ )( @ )
    Posts
    4,651

    Default

    kidd, I know - I meant that he turned the thread into same old same old about himself.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ren Wo Xing View Post
    Oh god, this again?
    I actually have a new recommended cure this time instead of "get laid".

    Lifting heavy weights and eating more meat while cutting tofu out of a male's diet will increase his testosterone level and fix all emo issues.
    "Anything you can't say NO to is your MASTER, and you are its SLAVE."

    "I disapprove of what I say, but I will defend to the death my right to say it."

  13. #53
    Senior Member xJadedx's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Posts
    2,866

    Default

    Stop feeding this.
    Because I'm somewhere in between,
    My love and my agony.

  14. #54
    Moderator Ken Cheng's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2002
    Posts
    22,642

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by xJadedx View Post
    Stop feeding this.
    Don't tell me what to do.

    If there's one thing I'm sick of and won't take anymore it's people telling me what to do.

    I'll do as I damn well please, when I please.

  15. #55
    Senior Member xJadedx's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Posts
    2,866

    Default

    I wasn't even talking to you, but whatever.
    Because I'm somewhere in between,
    My love and my agony.

  16. #56
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Sep 2009
    Location
    4 seasons in 1 day
    Posts
    1,138

    Default

    She wasn't talking to you.

  17. #57
    Moderator Ken Cheng's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2002
    Posts
    22,642

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by xJadedx View Post
    I wasn't even talking to you, but whatever.
    And don't give me any attitude either, because I'm sick of it and not going to take it from ANYBODY anymore.

    Never again...

  18. #58
    Senior Member xJadedx's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2003
    Posts
    2,866

    Default

    Good for you, you've seen the movie Network.
    Because I'm somewhere in between,
    My love and my agony.

  19. #59
    Moderator Ken Cheng's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2002
    Posts
    22,642

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by xJadedx View Post
    Good for you, you've seen the movie Network.
    Only that really famous scene.

    Hope the rest of the movie was as good.

    Sorry about that outburst. I didn't mean it personally. I'm just on rage wave right now.

    I've been on it continuously for close to two years now...don't know how to get off.

  20. #60
    Moderator kidd's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    Somewhere Out There
    Posts
    13,110

    Default

    Quote Originally Posted by Ken Cheng View Post
    Don't tell me what to do.

    If there's one thing I'm sick of and won't take anymore it's people telling me what to do.

    I'll do as I damn well please, when I please.
    Quote Originally Posted by Ken Cheng View Post
    I've been on it continuously for close to two years now...don't know how to get off.
    Is there any wonder that you 'don't know'?
    Last edited by kidd; 02-23-10 at 11:43 PM.
    什麼是朋友?朋友永遠是在你犯下不可原諒錯誤的時候,仍舊站在你那邊的笨蛋。~ 王亞瑟

    和諧唔係一百個人講同一番話,係一百個人有一百句唔同嘅說話,而又互相尊重 ~ - 葉梓恩

Similar Threads

  1. Who do you really hate in wuxia?
    By PJ in forum Wuxia Fiction
    Replies: 71
    Last Post: 11-02-10, 04:10 AM
  2. Why does my computer hate me?
    By Sparky in forum Tech Squad
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 09-19-08, 04:44 AM
  3. Replies: 29
    Last Post: 12-21-04, 05:15 AM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •