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    Why do girls lay there like dead fish? Maybe the guy is just not that interesting. The right man can bring her out of her shell.
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    Lol the cow girl (reverse) position can make the girl do all the work../
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    Quote Originally Posted by Extremer88 View Post
    This is a tricky question. Is it before or after marriage?

    If after marriage, and she's no good, then the husband will very sad for the rest of his life.
    That's when some men (or women) start cheating right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GeminiWitt View Post
    don't underestimate virgin girls...some of them are horniest
    I doubt she under-estimates them.

    on the other hand, some of the most experienced (ie. professionals) could be so damn bloody bored of it that they might wish to lie that like a deadfish (to borrow the expression) especially if that's actually a job.

    Now raise your hands up, who here gets excited whilst working?
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    Quote Originally Posted by So Yen View Post
    That's when some men (or women) start cheating right?
    usually its more than just that....like, the spouse did not have other good qualities to make it up for lousy sex.

    if sex is lousy but other areas absolutely perfect....the chances of the other party straying is much lower, but with the exception of seasonal cheaters.

    there are some people who can't help but prefer to practise polygamy, so its not that the spouse he or she is linked to is bad, but just that being faithful to one is difficult.
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    If the woman is no good in bed it is the man's fault. Women are different from men. They take time to get started, they need foreplay, sweet talk, and atmosphere. Until they are in the mood they are not going to be "good in bed".

    That brings me to another common misconception about sex. You aren't going to have an absolutely earth shattering experience every single time. Sometime one of you will be tired, or thinking about something else. It is just human nature. Sometimes you just want to get it on and go crazy. Other times you want to take it nice and slow. Both styles have their merit, and both are very enjoyable.

    The guy who is supposedly married but hasn't had sex with his wife is definitely failing as a husband. He has to teach his wife that sex isn't scary, but wonderful. Until he realizes that sex is not a selfish act, but an act of submission he is doomed, and his marriage is doomed. Good luck buddy!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucre View Post
    Now raise your hands up, who here gets excited whilst working?
    I do, but I love my work. Anyway, that aside - sex isn't (and in my opinion shouldn't be considered as) work. If you see it as such, then that's a different problem altogether.

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    If the woman is no good in bed it is the man's fault.
    Uh, no.

    Quote Originally Posted by Grundle View Post
    Women are different from men. They take time to get started, they need foreplay, sweet talk, and atmosphere. Until they are in the mood they are not going to be "good in bed".
    That doesn't apply to all women. Not all women are into sappy things (at least not always). And you can still be good in bed, and by that I mean satisfy and please your partner, even if you aren't completely in the mood yourself.

    Quote Originally Posted by Grundle View Post
    That brings me to another common misconception about sex. You aren't going to have an absolutely earth shattering experience every single time. Sometime one of you will be tired, or thinking about something else. It is just human nature. Sometimes you just want to get it on and go crazy. Other times you want to take it nice and slow. Both styles have their merit, and both are very enjoyable.
    You're mixing up different concepts.
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    Uh, no.
    Uh yes. A guy can get off and be done in 30 seconds flat. It is so easy for a guy to be satisfied that a woman hardly has to do anything. The hard part for a guy is making sure she ends up satisfied, because I guarantee the guy will be satisfied every time.

    That doesn't apply to all women. Not all women are into sappy things (at least not always). And you can still be good in bed, and by that I mean satisfy and please your partner, even if you aren't completely in the mood yourself.
    Nothing to do with being sappy, but I do grant you a point. I agree that a woman can satisfy her partner without being in the mood...but then once again refer to what I said above.

    You're mixing up different concepts.
    My definition of "good in bed" is that both people finish satisfied. Maybe I missed something here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Grundle View Post
    If the woman is no good in bed it is the man's fault. Women are different from men. They take time to get started, they need foreplay, sweet talk, and atmosphere. Until they are in the mood they are not going to be "good in bed".
    men need foreplay, dirty talk, etc too.

    as for woman no good b/c its man fault, thats bs. there are some that are just flatout lazy (never met one of those before, just stories from friends), or just dont know what to do
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    Quote Originally Posted by LuNaR View Post
    there are some that are just flatout lazy (never met one of those before, just stories from friends)
    lol, that might be true. I've heard some girls say that when in bed, they prefer to just lie there and let the guy do all the work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grundle View Post
    Uh yes. A guy can get off and be done in 30 seconds flat. It is so easy for a guy to be satisfied that a woman hardly has to do anything. The hard part for a guy is making sure she ends up satisfied, because I guarantee the guy will be satisfied every time.
    That's quicker than the cooking time of my Cuppa noodle after putting in the hot water!

    Re-arrange the "a guy" and "is so easy", you'll get "a guy is so easy" which is what can be deduced from your post.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xJadedx View Post
    I do, but I love my work. Anyway, that aside - sex isn't (and in my opinion shouldn't be considered as) work. If you see it as such, then that's a different problem altogether.
    i didnt say i see sex as work, what im saying is, for the people whose occupation is giving sex; it might get 'dry' for them. unless you'd never heard of the oldest profession in human civilization known as 'prostitute'?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucre View Post
    i didnt say i see sex as work, what im saying is, for the people whose occupation is giving sex; it might get 'dry' for them. unless you'd never heard of the oldest profession in human civilization known as 'prostitute'?
    I'm sure when Jaded started the thread, it wasn't about prostitutes, but about girls a guy would be dating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Grundle View Post
    Uh yes. A guy can get off and be done in 30 seconds flat. It is so easy for a guy to be satisfied that a woman hardly has to do anything. The hard part for a guy is making sure she ends up satisfied, because I guarantee the guy will be satisfied every time.
    Uh, I'm pretty sure Jaded was talking about more than just ejaculation. Ejaculation =! satisfaction/being good in bed, otherwise we'd just all use nothing but our hands.
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    Quote Originally Posted by skylee View Post
    lol, that might be true. I've heard some girls say that when in bed, they prefer to just lie there and let the guy do all the work.
    This just makes me go: HAHAHA.

    Too funny.
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    I think it depends if the girl is your GF or wife. I mean you could always eat some meals in outside home. The question is would you marry a girl that is not good in bed but connects with you on the intelectual plan?

    And common gilrs can always improve their skills right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jadebunny9 View Post
    I'm sure when Jaded started the thread, it wasn't about prostitutes, but about girls a guy would be dating.
    oh i thought prostitutes are just girls whose fulltime work is providing sex. surely these girls are also eligible to date like any other people. but then when it comes to sex they might be like "ouch that reminds me of work again"...its just a comment back to the supposed experience = more pleasure ideology. in the case of a sex worker, she may have alot of experience, but may not exactly be a very enthusiastic person in bed.
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    What if we changed the subject and said that the girl you are with is really good

    in bed. She knows all the intimate ways to satisfy the guy in every way.

    Now is that a good thing considering if she was only in her very early 20's?

    This would sort of make me imply that she either had many sexual partners or is

    very experienced with her ex or had many one night stands.
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    Quote Originally Posted by milKBoi View Post
    What if we changed the subject and said that the girl you are with is really good

    in bed. She knows all the intimate ways to satisfy the guy in every way.

    Now is that a good thing considering if she was only in her very early 20's?

    This would sort of make me imply that she either had many sexual partners or is

    very experienced with her ex or had many one night stands.
    well if you love her and she is not going to sleep around after hooking up then i don't see a problem. Or maybe you just want to have her as a friend with benefits

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    Quote Originally Posted by milKBoi View Post
    What if we changed the subject and said that the girl you are with is really good

    in bed. She knows all the intimate ways to satisfy the guy in every way.

    Now is that a good thing considering if she was only in her very early 20's?

    This would sort of make me imply that she either had many sexual partners or is

    very experienced with her ex or had many one night stands.
    You don't have to have a lot of sexual partners or have lots of one-night stands to be great at sex.
    Because I'm somewhere in between,
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