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    Is landing a local man that difficult for mainland chinese women? I just found another website www.chinalovematch.net that connect mainly chinese women to much older foreign men. Where are the local men?? I thought there is gender imbalance in china that these women should not have any difficulty finding a local man.

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    It's not the difficulty. They just want better options. Maybe they think foreign men will treat their wives better or they want to leave china and stay overseas.
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    Or, for the most part, the vast majority of Chinese men are still not that rich.

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    Based on conversations with a number of Chinese women, Chinese men tend to be "mummy's boys". With the increasing affluence and education, modern Chinese women may not like such guys.

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    Quite likely the product of the one child policy along with the preference of boys over girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wkeej View Post
    Based on conversations with a number of Chinese women, Chinese men tend to be "mummy's boys". With the increasing affluence and education, modern Chinese women may not like such guys.
    And Chinese women are shining examples of femininity?

    How many of them can cook & clean?

    How many of them are daddy's girl?

    How many have a job, live out of home and support themselves?

    In every country, women and men deserve each other.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Candide View Post
    And Chinese women are shining examples of femininity?

    How many of them can cook & clean?

    How many of them are daddy's girl?

    How many have a job, live out of home and support themselves?

    In every country, women and men deserve each other.
    Ha, I passed that "test."
    Because I'm somewhere in between,
    My love and my agony.

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    Why is it that you, TC always find such websites?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wkeej View Post
    Based on conversations with a number of Chinese women, Chinese men tend to be "mummy's boys". With the increasing affluence and education, modern Chinese women may not like such guys.
    Quote Originally Posted by Dirt View Post
    Quite likely the product of the one child policy along with the preference of boys over girls.
    Aren't mama boys something chinese women love best? That is the main reason they raise their sons to be like.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trien Chieu View Post
    Aren't mama boys something chinese women love best? That is the main reason they raise their sons to be like.
    Women love mama boys as sons, but hated them as husbands. Mama boys can make dating and marriage life a real pain, especially if the mother-in-law is not on good terms with the daughter-in-law.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trien Chieu View Post
    Aren't mama boys something chinese women love best? That is the main reason they raise their sons to be like.
    TC, mothers don't want the best for their sons. They think they do, but they don't.

    That's why sons should never ever listen to their mothers. Pay respect by pretending to listen, but don't follow their advices.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trien Chieu View Post
    Aren't mama boys something chinese women love best? That is the main reason they raise their sons to be like.
    as sons, so that they keep their boys tied to their own apron strings, continuing to vie affections from their future daughters-in-law.

    as mentioned, mama boys are only pleasing to the mama, not the wife.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Candide View Post
    TC, mothers don't want the best for their sons. They think they do, but they don't.

    That's why sons should never ever listen to their mothers. Pay respect by pretending to listen, but don't follow their advices.
    It also depends on the Momma. Not all mommys are that dysfunctional.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Guo Xiang View Post
    Women love mama boys as sons, but hated them as husbands. Mama boys can make dating and marriage life a real pain, especially if the mother-in-law is not on good terms with the daughter-in-law.
    So you are saying women love to make other women life miserable by raising their sons as momma boys

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    Lets just say that the rich and successful Chinese men have no problems getting a long long queue of Chinese women.

    There is not just enough of them (the above men), so some of the women have to resort to such websites.

    Now of course I am generalising but you get the idea.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Trien Chieu View Post
    So you are saying women love to make other women life miserable by raising their sons as momma boys
    In an argument between your wife and your mother, they both want you to be on their side and not the other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucre View Post
    It also depends on the Momma. Not all mommys are that dysfunctional.
    Of course you would say that, since you're a woman.

    And what CC said +1. Not enough rich successful men to go around, and those guys can only have so many mistresses (damn human limit).
    "Anything you can't say NO to is your MASTER, and you are its SLAVE."

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    A mama's boy will be good if you and his mom is on the same side.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Candide View Post
    Of course you would say that, since you're a woman.
    yeah thank God for that!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucre View Post
    as sons, so that they keep their boys tied to their own apron strings, continuing to vie affections from their future daughters-in-law.

    as mentioned, mama boys are only pleasing to the mama, not the wife.
    How do you know??
    Did you date a mama boy??

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