What's your most defining characteristic?

[ByTmE]

Let's talk about ourselves because I like listening [and reading] to people talk about themselves LoL. I think that some people do not have an accurate assessment of their outer image. Conversely, others are very aware and know how others perceive them. So what are your most defining personality and/or physical characteristics? Do people ever tell you otherwise? Do they surprise you?

I'll start with personality: sense of humor. If you know me, then you know I love to laugh. Others tell me that it's my friendliness. I would not ever define myself as a friendly person though.

Physically, I'm 5ft tall. While there are others who are smaller or more petite than I am, but my physical stature, more often than not, makes me feel vulnerable. Others though said it's my eyes and lips....not necessarily in a good way. I've been told that people often feel compelled to answer me honestly when I focus my eyes on them. Hm. It's not like a don't blink when I talk or anything...for lips, I don't know.

Am I highly aware of what others think of me? I honestly don't know, but I'm more in touch with the personality aspect VS the physical aspect it seems.

And y'all? Please share. I love to hear about how others "have no idea" like I do.

[kay &!*]

personality: very direct; confrontational. some ppl laugh when i say something mean because they think i'm joking when it's actually just the truth weird, random.

appearance: intimidating if i dont know you; which is true. i don't really make eye contact or smile if i don't know you which makes me seem very unfriendly && snobby (but i'm super friendly!). i'm working on this though.

[Lucre]

appearances: im a fan of lolita-dressing, and i dressed up every sunday mass; so many people in church probably knew me by "the girl with an unusual fashion sense" before knowing who i really am. if im not in those sort of dresses im at least in the less than normal attire (or what most people tell me)

personality: i dont know..i get a variety of feedback...but i like to think im kind, gentle, approachable, utterly cute....and HUMBLE.

[Guo Xiang]

personality: i dont know..i get a variety of feedback...but i like to think im kind, gentle, approachable, utterly cute....and HUMBLE.

Ok this makes me laugh.

[ByTmE]

personality: i dont know..i get a variety of feedback...but i like to think im kind, gentle, approachable, utterly cute....and HUMBLE.

Yes, but it's really funny! LoL

[remember_Cedric]

personality: very direct; confrontational. some ppl laugh when i say something mean because they think i'm joking when it's actually just the truth weird, random.

does that include me? i really find it funny when you cuss because i seem to be able to visual you doing that.

I love to laugh too! considerably cheerful, often clown around, dislike the idea of taking advantage of characters I perceived as weak.

I'm often observing people around me. It takes me awhile to open up and be friendly to people who approach me. I take friendship seriously and will try my best to be there for someone whom I claimed as a good friend.

[Candide]

Why don't you girls post up a couple of 5 years old photos of yourselves and rename this thread "Internet dating"?

[PJ]

sleepiness, love for food, and obsession with wuxia.

[Lucre]

Why don't you girls post up a couple of 5 years old photos of yourselves and rename this thread "Internet dating"?

i don't dare to post up pictures of myself, whether kiddy me or current me...i do fear stalkers...and i don't exactly wanna increase that number volunteerily via my own careless actions.

[ByTmE]

Why don't you girls post up a couple of 5 years old photos of yourselves and rename this thread "Internet dating"?

Since you suggested, why don't you start? And Lucre has an excellent excellent point.

Oh, and you didn't post of up defining characteristics...though I could help you think of some descriptive words if you want me to.

[xJadedx]

Personality: I'm apparently very nice. Someone from my work place told me that one of the things he noticed first about me was how nice I am. I was quite surprised to be honest. This is also because some people thought of me as arrogant.

Appearance: No idea. I guess I like my general figure and legs. My hair is also pretty.

[Guo Xiang]

Appearance: No idea. I guess I like my general figure and legs. My hair is also pretty.

Keep your glasses on, never switch to contact lens. The glasses are part of what makes you look so hot.

[Suet Seung]

Keep your glasses on, never switch to contact lens. The glasses are part of what makes you look so hot.

Guo meimei, Are you hitting on Jaded?

[Guo Xiang]

Guo meimei, Are you hitting on Jaded?

Sis, I'm merely speaking in the capacity of a fellow glasses-wearing human.

[remember_Cedric]

Why don't you girls post up a couple of 5 years old photos of yourselves and rename this thread "Internet dating"?

What a comeback post I can pretty much imagine how you'd look like as a 5 year-old.

Welcome back, Candyman!

Oh, and you didn't post of up defining characteristics...though I could help you think of some descriptive words if you want me to.

He is a B..... for Blunt! Blunt, but still funny!
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I should also add this to my most most defining character - absent-minded.... oh, I forgot, some friends would describe me as - hothead beneath that calm exterior, which is very true. I can do inconceiveable things when I get angry.... such as slamming a chair on the person who is the root of my anger.

[Lucre]

Sis, I'm merely speaking in the capacity of a fellow glasses-wearing human.

i believe you, cos knowing you, you only hit on chickens and sheep.

[Candide]

Err, I mean photos that are 5 years old - since this thread is all about you people selling your supposedly best features to the Internet, it sounds too much like Internet dating. Might as well post up some old artistically enhanced, cleverly angled photos and say yes you really do look like that.

[ByTmE]

Personality: I'm apparently very nice. Someone from my work place told me that one of the things he noticed first about me was how nice I am. I was quite surprised to be honest. This is also because some people thought of me as arrogant.

I've also come to notice that you are very frank. HaHa!

I should also add this to my most most defining character - absent-minded.... oh, I forgot, some friends would describe me as - hothead beneath that calm exterior, which is very true. I can do inconceiveable things when I get angry.... such as slamming a chair on the person who is the root of my anger.

Firstly, don't encourage him. Secondly, WoW that's really mad! Seriously? Seriously? I guess it's always the people that you expect it the least from LoL.

Err, I mean photos that are 5 years old - since this thread is all about you people selling your supposedly best features to the Internet, it sounds too much like Internet dating. Might as well post up some old artistically enhanced, cleverly angled photos and say yes you really do look like that.

Don't worry, I knew what you meant. I just wasn't as impressed as Ceddy was. We're not selling our best features to the internet, some of us are just awesome to the very core.

[remember_Cedric]

Firstly, don't encourage him. Secondly, WoW that's really mad! Seriously? Seriously? I guess it's always the people that you expect it the least from LoL.

*refers to the line in bold* You could be right!

That also means, I'm usually in jovial mode and only lose my temper when I felt the threat or injustice (most often) towards the people I hold dear.

[Lucre]

Don't worry, I knew what you meant. I just wasn't as impressed as Ceddy was. We're not selling our best features to the internet, some of us are just awesome to the very core.

y'know, i sooooo agree with you. honesty does not equate 'selling'. oh ya, did i add that to my list of personality traits? *checks* apparently not, oh dear me....I guess I was too humble to make such a huge list.