OK. I got some free time, so ... we can do it here, you will try to convince me to go over to your camp, or we can move to another thread.
I read Ken's reasons for hating Yang Guo and XLN, but that was a few months ago. I'm not sure if I remember all of it, but I don't want to go back and read his comments again either. But as far as matyrdom, so what? When growing up, didn't you go through any rebel phase where you think I don't care what my parents said, and damn the consequences, I'll just do what I want? So Jin Yong penned a little fantasy. But he did say that his tale is a tale of great coincidences. If those chances did not come together, then ofcourse Yang Guo and XLN would not come out all roses. They would be toast. So if you don't have Jin Yong to pen out your life for you, don't immitate Yang Guo and XLN. You would be toast as well. What was that they often say on TV? Don't try to do this at home. We are the professionals ...
Also you must understand that there are always two sides of a coin. Depend on how you see it, an ex-con who found love might think his life was pretty good, working a janitor job, then come home with his honey. But for someone else, he's still an ex-con with a crappy job and a little mousy woman for a wife. So what if Yang Guo and XLN are heroes to some like the Guo family and the whole Xiang Jiang? Who knows behind his back, there are still people who think that Yang Guo still an one armed man, XLN, a woman had more than one man, and they were still a sifu and a disciple who married each other? Think of Bratt Pitt and Jolie Angelina. Some think them a great couple who did a lot of charity work. But for some others Bratt Pitt was still a man who left his wife, and Jolie was still a home wrecker. So if you think one armed man Yang Guo had it pretty good with all his antics and still ended up being a great hero, and the most beautiful woman for a wife, then do so. If I can be as lucky, I might trade my life for his, but by no mean, I would be glad to have my arm chopped off, even to trade it to be one of the greatest kungfu master, or be glad to wait 16 years alone for someone, wasting away the prime of my life, and not knowing that after 16 years, I can still have my normal family life (XLN would be 40 then, and might not be able to have children any longer). If I'm Yang Guo, for someone like XLN, yes, I would wait that long alone. But I would wait knowing that it was a trade off: for a woman like XLN, but a chance that we might never have any children. So if you think it was all roses, then go ahead, but even in that fantasy world, apply real life to it, it might not be that rosie.
Regarding to Yin Zhiping, I don't mean whether he was willing to step down or not. I don't have much problem with him. He committed a crime and paid for it. The problem I have was with the Quanzhen junta. If he lived, would they strip him of his position for his crime, or would they say because his loyalty and patriotism, he's worthy to keep his position despite his crime? Those priests seemed to talk well, but their actions were not that responsible, at least in that novel.