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    The purpose of this thread is to share/discuss wisdom/opinions you've gained pertaining to the ever-so-intricate art of love and relationships.
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    I have figured out something: I don't like explicit pursuits. A couple-to-be should be able to make each other happy without ever trying to pursue each other. This way it is more natural.
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    I foresee this thread to be filled with BS and crap people get from watching too much bad TV.
    Because I'm somewhere in between,
    My love and my agony.

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    Isn't Love something TV, Hollywood and the music industry invented to sell their products?
    "Anything you can't say NO to is your MASTER, and you are its SLAVE."

    "I disapprove of what I say, but I will defend to the death my right to say it."

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    Or did men invent love to get laid? Hey, this thread is pretty insightful already.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Banh Mi View Post
    Or did men invent love to get laid?
    As it's always the case, men invented everything, including Love.

    Some men invented it to get laid once upon a time, then Woman took over and sold it as a fantasy to keep the rest of the men hooked, so that they'd become her slaves. Love is like the Riddle of the (female) Sphinx. Men who believe it exists are killed at Her feet. Men who know it doesn't exist get to go through.
    "Anything you can't say NO to is your MASTER, and you are its SLAVE."

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    Love is food.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PJ View Post
    I have figured out something: I don't like explicit pursuits. A couple-to-be should be able to make each other happy without ever trying to pursue each other. This way it is more natural.
    I like this. I like it a lot. My sentiments exactly.

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    Are we only talking about romantic love and relationships? In my life, they are not really so much a priority, yet, I think. I happen to be an expert in non-relationships in that case. It's the familial love and friendships as a form of love that I have the most problems with. ::
    I like me.

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    Now, I use the words "I love you" more though you must also mean it. Also, do not use it all the time.

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    Love is but a moment. Commitment is for a lifetime.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wkeej View Post
    Now, I use the words "I love you" more though you must also mean it. Also, do not use it all the time.
    I overused it in my younger days. Now it is reserved for the most special occasions.
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    While I appreciate my love interest's Guo Jing-like straightforwardness, and his GJ-like dim-wittedness can be cute, his Yang Tiexin-like brashness is less-than-helpful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PJ View Post
    While I appreciate my love interest's Guo Jing-like straightforwardness, and his GJ-like dim-wittedness can be cute, his Yang Tiexin-like brashness is less-than-helpful.
    You got a new love already? Congrats!
    什麼是朋友?朋友永遠是在你犯下不可原諒錯誤的時候,仍舊站在你那邊的笨蛋。~ 王亞瑟

    和諧唔係一百個人講同一番話,係一百個人有一百句唔同嘅說話,而又互相尊重 ~ - 葉梓恩

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    Quote Originally Posted by kidd View Post
    You got a new love already?
    the keyword was love interest.
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    "The Social Network" is another movie exploring the theme that something big (in this case, the precursor to Facebook) was started because a guy missed a girl.
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    Q: Is chemistry (the romantic kind) supposed to be a mutual feeling? Can it exist if the attraction is one-sided? What IS chemistry, exactly? I mean, I think I know what it is, but I'm not too sure.

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    love is the most wonderful and beautiful thing in life.

    =)

    of course there is love, it's a precious gift that cannot be bought but only be given freely.

    in this materialistic world, it seemed too good to be true because it's free, but yet it seemed unattainable, because it cannot be bought.
    o wilku mowa...♪

    The only thing I need to know is that I don't know anything.

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    I wanna know what love is
    I want you to show me
    I wanna feel what love is
    I know you can show me

    by the Foreigner.


    Lyrics to my (love) life.
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