I am taking this girl's word with a grain of salt. When you judge someone for judging, you are also a judger. Confrontational does not always have to own the pejorative sense that most people assign to it. Besides, she seems like to hang out with me and then attack me underhandedly. Unfortunately, this is a cohort member. But when we graduate, I don't have to see her again. It is a good thing she knows that I am not easily bullied when I have a cause I believe is worth mouthing off for.