Please, only me and charbydis have ever tried to say something nice and see things from the POV of LY. Everyone else sided with LSY and blame LY. Nothing funny about it. We just able to see things from other point instead of just love love love love love. Many people see series now with a modern POV, love above all. I don't place the blame more on LSY. I just said more in defense of LY because Guo Xiang was talking like he was the jerkest and worst person in the series.
Well, you always sided with the ladies (seeing how you wanted Kam Sai Wan to suffer guilt his whole life).