Okay. This is actually a question that has to do with me personally. Since I don't know what to do, I thought I'd ask for all your thoughts. I have a few relatives [one whole side of a family, actually except for a single uncle] that is not interested in talking to me or my family [except for my Dad]. My father's brother still invites us over for the holidays, but I'm pretty sure that my paternal cousins aren't supposed to talk to me either... even on Facebook. I have never seen any of my cousins during the holidays either...for the past decade, actually. Is it right for me to just stop treating them as being my relatives? I mean, if you don't want to be friends with someone any longer, you simply stop talking to them and the friendship ends. Could this also apply for relatives that don't want to be related to one another?
This is a terrible situation to be in, especially for my dad, but it's not uncommon and unfortunately it is the reality in our family. Thus far, I have decided to remain cordial if I see them in person [they're not always so] but quite frankly, I'm not interested in keeping up the appearance of being a happy family...because that's fake, but I do it out of love for my dad. Should I just be a big girl and keep pretending I care about them? I don't care about them, I only care about my dad.
Oh BTW I used to be close to this side of the family growing up..but it seems like they don't like the person that I've grown up to be, with the exception of said uncle...so I am a little hurt.