For those who are interested, here is an excerpt from an article.
Stepping-Out
No longer used to addressing Nnadia as the "big sister Chung Chung", one has got to admit she has indeed hit 31 this year. While others have gone ahead and started their own families, Nnadia is still striving in this industry. After years of being the familiar amiable girl-next-door, Nnadia has gotten used to smiling. On the topic of her dogs, she chuckles loudly. On the topic of junk food, she also guffaws. The smile is dazzling, the teeth pearly white, but yet her eyes are veiled with sorrow. Flashback to 14 years ago when she was physically abused by her parents. The girl in school uniform, awaiting her turn with Leon Lai on the set of "Song Bird" in TVB, a girl who enjoyed studying but was coerced by her parents to work and bring home income instead. The situation deteriorated and the police and a counsellor was called in. In the end, she had to turn to her adoptive mother for assistance. Nnadia says, she bears neither grudge nor hatred towards her parents, but she no longer believes in love and has no confidence in starting her own family.She laughs loudly again but it is a dry laugh, perhaps the laughter is to tell others that she is happy, she is approachable, that she has climbed out of her own shell. But she can only walk out of her own shadow, not enter into another's world. "Afraid of getting hurt?" I asked. "Yes, scared. So I seldom comment on others, only on myself." In 1985, after having won a "Singer-look-alike"contest and a serial (Songbird) later, Nnadia made her mark in the entertainment circle. Back then, she found herself able to tackle the role in the show because she had her own life experiences as a reference. She said her childhood misfortunes included her mom's beatings till her face was swollen and she had to be brought in to see a counsellor, her being forced to participate in the contest so she could get her feet into the industry, and the continual amount of work she was ladened with just so she could bring home income for the family. At 17, she was determined to return to her schooling and this brought about more battering. She pleaded for help, the cops came and she moved out to be brought up by her adoptive mother. "About the past, I've plastered up the wound and I do not wish to peel this gauze away...because I'm afraid to let others see. This is my scar, I believe everyone has their own scars, some from family, some from myself. I know I have also done wrong. Family problems are two-sided, I've never blamed anyone, I just don't trust anymore. Every child should be able to trust her parents most, but my parents never offered me this credibility. I only have faith in myself, to live in my own world, I believe that is the truest of reality. That year when I came into the limelight, I didn't like it at all, I loathed the lifestyle of alternating between the studio and school. I'm very against the fact that my parents forced me to film for the money, but with this defiance, I only brought upon myself physical pain. At one stage in life, I thought of committing suicide. I believe in myself, I know deep down that bliss is not always obtainable. I stand strong with the belief that one has to face reality, there is no escaping. This may sound weird but sometimes, I actually feel that my encounters had been a good thing because they trained me to adapt to difficult situations. I've been fortunate, at least when I was confronted with problems, there were many people who stood by me, so I'm not too unsettled about my encounters. My adoptive mother was no rich person, when I wanted to continue with my studies, I had to pitch in my share, that's why I worked, not being forced this time, but for myself."
Birth mom incomparable to adoptive mom
At 17, she left her birth parents and moved in with her adoptive family. This was the turning point in her life, she understands that to bring up a child is nobler than giving birth to your own. "I won't necessarily give birth myself, I don't look so much into this issue of blood-relations. There're many kids in this world whom nobody cares for, if I want a child, I'll go adopt. The responsibility of rearing a child is much greater than having them. A child without someone to show love and concern, it leaves them with a great emotional impact. They need good morals to direct them the right way in life. If I did not have my adoptive mom back then, I'd probably have ended up in the pile of problem teenage girls."Painless breakups