that's the whole point of the series : tragic love and traditional chinese values .
it's supposed to show how steadfast a traditional chinese person can be even if the results are detrimental .
I thought the chances of kathy following eddie to US was very slim , so the story was accurate from that point .
But all in all - very sad for the true heroes in my book : eddie and kathy , still they had some 30 years together , that's not too bad , it could have been much worse.
And people say chinese characters are boring ?? they know nuts , most of these " critics " are so called ' chinese ' born and bred in western countries .
they have silly misconceptions about us in the heartlands.