Our Dear Radken,
I am starting to doubt your story. I think you are leading us on, perhaps trying to make this forum more lively.
Your question was: "Is it wrong to mess with another man's wife?". The question did not seem right from you. When we use the word "mess", we know that that is someting that is not good, not orderly and it is wrong. SO why do you ask us if it is wrong if you know that already.
Every scenerio seem perfect fit. Husband abuse the family finances, husband stays out late comes home only in the morning, girl getting drunk, sob story. Seems like a good setup for your story.
Now she is pregnant.
A woman knows she is pregnant when she misses her period. So when did that happened, and she never told you until you talked to her seriously. She is a married woman, she has to know there has to be consequences. don't seem right that she said nothing until now.
You topic was started on Jan 28th, 2009. You did not indicate that you were intimate until later in the posts. So how far is she into the pregnancy, 4 weeks, 6weeks????. So if you were doing her that long, is it not too late to post that question?
You did her once and she is pregnant. You must be Wyatt Earp, shoot and never miss.
If you have sex with her many times, it is inconceivable that you take you did not take precautions (and condoms is not the only method). Surely both of you must be aware of the risks and consequences.
Tell us the truth, do not let us worry for you.
Messing with another man's wife is one thing. He can forgive and move on if he still love her.
But getting her pregnant is another thing. You invaded his property, and contempminated the goods. He will be less forgiving.
If this story is indeed true, Take heed.