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clfan
Trien Chieu, you telling me a young Shanghai girl married to a man age 50-60 and he bring her to USA, and that is because of LOVE and not because of Visa and passport? Let's be realistic here OK, I can guanrantee you most young girls in China who married foreign men so they can go to USA are mainly for passport.
I agree. I hate the one that married for passport. They should be looked down upon. However, I am also acknowledge that their are cases of marriage for love.
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I can tell you my case, because I know the family. The young Shanghai girl married a 50 year olds man and now she in USA, they have a child. But she never home, driving her nice car around since morning go shopping, weekend and holiday go to bars and parties, leaving home her child and the husband. Haha!! Wow this is really LOVE, I damn sure I don't want a love like this.
She is terrible. He married the wrong girl.
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There is nothing wrong with married black, but if a Chinese girl married a black man so she can come to USA, then this is not love.
Agree but if after they move to the US and they still happily married with kid then I would say they are married for love.
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I do not have any evidence that those young girls married old men is because of passport. You also do not have any evidence that those young girls married those old men are for love.
True. After they move to the US and if they still happily married then I would say they married for love. If she changes 180 degree like the Shanghai girl you mention from the above then she is obviously married him for passport.
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In my post, I say girls that being a mistress willing to be feed by a married man ( a Man already MARRIED) --- This is not a small number, in fact China have a lot. You are not Chinese Trieu Chieu, you do not know the Chinese lifestyle in China right now. I am Chinese, I come from China. I know China better than you. Maybe you should study Chinese, and go to China and see it for yourself.
I am Teochew Chinese, born in VietNam then moved to Canada when I was 13 years old.
Recently, my family (including me) visits our family back in Shantou, China for about two weeks http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shantou. My relative over there are rich, they own a factory making some kind of wire. Actually, lot of people from my father home town are getting rich. My father hometown is full of factories and a town nearby is Guiyu, the town of recycling e-waste http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Electronic_waste_in_Guiyu. Lot of people getting rich from such business. The road is full of cars and they cost like 2.5 times more than here in Canada, at least 3 times more than US and people over there can afford Lexus, BMW, Mercedes, ect. However, the area is very very polluted. The underground water is not drinkable, garbage is everywhere, pond and lake is running black. There is smog every day, no blue sky day. If thing keep going like the way they are, the future generation will suffer as the place is becoming unlivable.
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There is a trend in China for young girls willing to be mistress to older rich men and powerful officials (Chinese Communist Party officials) most of them have young misstress anyways. Have you read the latest scandal in China, do you know what going on in China politically? China is not glamorous and traditional like most people think. Try read this
http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/zh...icle-1.1087557
This is sad that all the great traditional values is gone.
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There is nothing wrong working in bar for money. But there is a big wrong with being an 'ernai" for money. Ernai means 'misstress". Knowing a man already have wife and kids, and still willing to be his mistress so he can buy you houses and give you money is Wrong! Not only you are shameless, but you also hurting his wife and kids. I can guarantee you whether Asian or American culture, anybody would tell you straight out in your face that being a mistress is WRONG!
Did you read my earlier post that I agreed with you.
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Anyways, I already make my point clear enough in my post. Whether you agree of not doesn't matter. We all have different viewpoints, and do what ever float your boat.
If someone want to married for passport, go head, is their life.
If someone want to look for true love, go head, is also their life.
Again, please read my earlier post again. Agree with you regarding Ernai.