Originally Posted by
Trinie
I don't think you should say that because it also depends on the situation as well. I agree that family should be and are the most important people to you, but you have to think of others at times as well. When you are in trouble, lots of "strangers" that are good samaritans would reach out and help you so why would you not help them?? But I do know it is hard to pick them over your family, however, wouldn't you feel guilty if you just saved your loved ones and then just let others die? Their family will then be sad as well since they lost their loved ones... I always believed that "tian gen ben dou shi yi jia ren", however, that is just my way of thinking...ALso, you really don't know if those strangers are good or bad people but you should not just assume that they are bad people and not help them.