Okay, i would like to know if you guys agree with what this person did. It's a complicated story but I'll try to make it short.
We have kind of like a Romeo and Juliet story line here. Two people who aren't supposed to have fallen in love, but do and fight to be together. After going through a big accident that causes the girl to go into surgery, her side of the family kind of allows them to be together. The surgery however causes her to slowly go blind. She finds out from the doctor that she is in fact going blind and sooner than later will be completely blind.
She decides that with everything that’s going on, the other side of the family still won’t accept them, it’s best to let go of the person she loves the most. So with all the reasons she could think of she tells him to leave her alone and to forget everything that’s happened with them. Stating that their families will never be able to forgive each other for what happened and if they would have had separated just like what the family wanted than there wouldn’t be an accident which caused her to go into surgery. The guy is confused and doesn’t know why she changed all of a sudden. He tries to reason with her that he would make his family stay away from her and her family. She tells him it’d never work and demands that he never come see her again.
The guy is devastated but still doesn’t give up. He said he’d give her time and when she’s ready to talk to him again she could call him. Once he’s gone she acknowledges that she only said those things out of love for him. She doesn’t want him to suffer and have to take care of her.
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Personally, I find her method to be very selfish. She basically decided that she’d be a burden on her lover and decided to deal with it herself. To me she seems to be very immature in love. BUT overall she does know what love is, even though her method on dealing with the situation is wrong, everything she did was because of her love for him. She’s willing to give up her happiness for him. So I really don’t know if she’s to blame for all of this.