Sex = relationship?

[xJadedx]

No. I was terrifed of that chick. Who knows what she would do to me after I fall asleep??? Or worse, after I inevitably dump her? I'm very attached to my balls and I don't like acid on my face.

Acid in face? I was more thinking superglue to your nuts a la Rose style.

[Candide]

She's Vietnamese, it's popular with them.

Don't dig the Rose's method either.

[ByTmE]

She's Vietnamese, it's popular with them.

Don't dig the Rose's method either.

Acid in the face is popular with Cambodians too. Hm, that's good to know about the Vietnamese.

[xJadedx]

She's Vietnamese, it's popular with them.

Don't dig the Rose's method either.

Where do they get acid?

[Candide]

That's like asking how do people commit crime? lol

Well, usually they hire some lowlife junkie to do it for them. As for the junkies, when you're mixing in with the chemical enthusiast crowd, it's trivial to get some acid.

[kidd]

I agree with Guo Xiang, ByTmE and Lucre.

I'm ok with other people's choice of having casual sex. But, for me, you better be serious.

Like ByTmE said

In short, if I have chosen to sleep with you, you better know that you're my boyfriend!

[PJ]

It is truly unfortunately when one with idea #1 sleeps with one with idea #2. The one with idea #1 usually has the lower hand if it doesn't work out.

[kidd]

I believe in sex only with your legally married spouse. However, to answer the question, just because someone have sex with you doesn't mean you have the right to assume he or she would be your romantic partner, especially if there wasn't a relationship prior to that. If one does it with the expectations of 'trapping' the other party, that's also morally wrong!

If you wanna have sex with someone who isn't even your boyfriend/girlfriend, that's your responsibility. Reciprocating your feelings belonged to the responsibility and freewill of the other party.

Of course, trapping a guy like that is wrong.

But, I think the person has the right to assume that it's serious if it happens after dating a couple of times.

[Candide]

In short, if I have chosen to sleep with you, you better know that you're my boyfriend!

That's what every girl says.

Often followed by: "I don't normally do this / I've never done this before"

[kidd]

That's what every girl says.

Often followed by: "I don't normally do this / I've never done this before"

That's why the guy should know that he's her boyfriend.

If she doesn't normally do this/have never done this before, and she does it with you, that means she sees you as a boyfriend. So, be responsible, guy.

[Lucre]

Of course, trapping a guy like that is wrong.

But, I think the person has the right to assume that it's serious if it happens after dating a couple of times.

jumping to sex after a couple of dates does seemed very 'casual' to me. =p

to assume that the person is your bf/gf without even extracting a verbal agreement is still taking a risk. but sometimes, people do make mistakes. much as we strive to be righteous, i don't think anyone deserved to be dung in pig-cage-style into the sea for making less ideal choices in life.

[xJadedx]

That's why the guy should know that he's her boyfriend.

If she doesn't normally do this/have never done this before, and she does it with you, that means she sees you as a boyfriend. So, be responsible, guy.

I don't think that was Candide's point :P.

[Banh Mi]

That's why the guy should know that he's her boyfriend.

If she doesn't normally do this/have never done this before, and she does it with you, that means she sees you as a boyfriend. So, be responsible, guy.

That whooshing noise, was the point going over your head.

[xJadedx]

That whooshing noise, was the point going over your head.

Why do you always come up with better responses than I do?

[kidd]

I still don't get what you guys are trying say.

[Candide]

Why do you always come up with better responses than I do?

Cos he's my bro.

*hi5 Banh Mi*

Any of you wants to explain this to poor kidd?

[ByTmE]

That's what every girl says.

Often followed by: "I don't normally do this / I've never done this before"

I will attempt. The above statement is a lie and a common one that girls tell boys to feign innocence of sex. Therefore, my statement below:

In short, if I have chosen to sleep with you, you better know that you're my boyfriend!

...in fact, means nothing or can't be highly regarded because deeming a partner to be a "serious bf" is relative and often laughable since most "modern" young woman are not as chaste as they present themselves to be.

Put into context of the thread: Though girls say that they are serious about sex and are only intimate with a partner that is special to them, a girl can have multiple boyfriends who are special in different times of her life. And if you're the type into serial monogamy, have sex with each special guy in your life, then those boyfriends aren't that special, and said girl is a skanky h0.

It's simplistic, but I tried.

[kidd]

I will attempt. The above statement is a lie and a common one that girls tell boys to feign innocence of sex. Therefore, my statement below:



...in fact, means nothing or can't be highly regarded because deeming a partner to be a "serious bf" is relative and often laughable since most "modern" young woman are not as chaste as they present themselves to be.

Put into context of the thread: Though girls say that they are serious about sex and are only intimate with a partner that is special to them, a girl can have multiple boyfriends who are special in different times of her life. And if you're the type into serial monogamy, have sex with each special guy in your life, then those boyfriends aren't that special, and said girl is a skanky h0.

It's simplistic, but I tried.

Oic. Thanks for your explanation.

[xJadedx]

And if you're the type into serial monogamy, have sex with each special guy in your life, then those boyfriends aren't that special, and said girl is a skanky h0.

That's a bit judgmental. I mean, if someone does find a sense of deeper connection with each person (whom they consider to be special) they sleep with, then these connections can be very legit and isn't considered skanky. And it really isn't difficult to imagine such scenarios, I don't think.
But, if they only say that to sound "appealing" or something, then that's different.

[kidd]

That's a bit judgmental. I mean, if someone does find a sense of deeper connection with each person they sleep with, then these connections can be very legit and isn't considered skanky. And it really isn't difficult to imagine such scenarios, I don't think.
But, if they only say that to sound "appealing" or something, then that's different.

ByTmE is just trying to decipher the cryptic messages from you guys. Not necessarily her own opinion.