Kiu Fung
Deun Yu
Money and fame doesn't always equal happiness.
Sure, it helps, but wealth only opens up more opportunities for happiness and security, it doesn't guarantee anything. There are no absolute certainties in life. To firmly insist that everyone who has money is happy is ignorant.
Trien Chieu's words reminds me a lot of the things my father used to say. He also judges people, even an entire cultures, by their surface. He never look deeper at the finer details and complexities of a human life.
I wish Barbara is like her character of WY in LOCH. Unfortunately, she was not.
I don't know. I just wish that I can be a super star like them with millions. I guess the grass on the other side is alway greener. Perhaps, they might think my simple life is better than their. Who know?
Perhaps you are right. I just have a very bad day today. I just moved to Vancouver about a week ago. I took car to the dealership for major service and it costed me almost $3500. It's not like I done something wrong but just feel bad about the costly service. Still many things need to pay like safety inspection, insurance, new license plate, new driver license, new health card . Good thing that I saved up for rainy days. It probably cost me a year of saving.
Imagine if I was a super star, a few thousand dollars would be nothing for me, something I don't have to think about .
Last edited by Trien Chieu; 07-15-15 at 02:43 AM.
Yeah, our brains are programmed to be unsatisfied with complacency and general adaptability, so fame and fortune quickly becomes unsatisfying once it's achieved. When people say "walk a mile in his shoes" it's usually referencing those more fortunate thinking about life as an unfortunate person, but the inverse is also true; most of us living a celebrity's life would likely handle it no better than the people we criticize. It's just a defense mechanism.
I mean, it seems like 99% of people like to see the people at the top fall for no reason. It's illogical and unjustified....just like when the people at the top do seemingly dumb things when they have what 99% of the people want. Just seems like humans at different ends of the spectrum just can't quite relate to each other [generally].
Perhaps you are right but you never know until you achieve fame and fortune. If you are an average person working to earn a living then never know whether you are satisfied if you achieve fame and fortune.
I don't like to see then fall from the top. I just dislike them for thinking that somehow they are above the law.I mean, it seems like 99% of people like to see the people at the top fall for no reason. It's illogical and unjustified....just like when the people at the top do seemingly dumb things when they have what 99% of the people want. Just seems like humans at different ends of the spectrum just can't quite relate to each other [generally].
I think she had a great voice. Some of her songs are classic. The bad new about her is her daughter just passed away recently.
What do you think of her as a mother? The best in the world or the worst in the world. You can argue either way. The best would be she left like $20+ million to her daughter. 99++% of the parents in the world don't leave such a huge fortune to their children as they don't have such wealth. The worst would be she allowed her daughter to abuse drug and alcohol at such as young age. Consequently, her daughter can't live a normal and healthy life.
Your father is not politically correct but perhaps he has wise judgements. There are lot of wise people like him out there. He is not the only one. Too bad you don't learn any of that great things from him .
Your father is not politically correct but perhaps he has wise judgements. There are lot of wise people like him out there. He is not the only one. Too bad you don't learn any of that great things from him
Pray tell, what your idea of wisdom is. Since by looking at your previous comments it seems your criteria for wisdom are, being judgemental, racially bias, narrow minded and completely ignoring historical facts in favour of xenophobic propaganda.
If this is wisdom then I am proud to be foolish.
I dare not say that I hold all the knowledge in the world or that I am totally free of my own prejudices as I am only mortal, but I can say that I am aware of my limitations. I know there is much I do not and will probably never know. I know that my views are not always right, but thanks to being 'PC' I can admit to these short comings and strive to overcome them.
So forgive me if a choose to remain a fool.
MRF put himself in difficut situation and could never go out of it. He look most of people as his enemies and obstacles. Therefore he couldn;t get true alliances to achieve his dreams. Moreover his dreams could put million of people in life and death situation as he expect a war and chaos to have a slight chance to be an emperor. That is not a good dream that will be supported by good people.