Between Huang Rong and Zhao Min, who do you think was the more assertive wife.

[Llmnt]

They both made the first move on their partner/husband and were ready to eliminate ‘challengers’ (Rong’er actually threatened Nianci with a knife to stay away from Guo Jing, while Zhao Min wanted to disfigure Zhu Zhirou’s face to make her ugly) Which do you think was more bossy or assertive, and did the better job wooing their partner/husband?

[Mandred Skavenslayer]

They both made the first move on their partner/husband and were ready to eliminate ‘challengers’ (Rong’er actually threatened Nianci with a knife to stay away from Guo Jing, while Zhao Min wanted to disfigure Zhu Zhirou’s face to make her ugly) Which do you think was more bossy or assertive, and did the better job wooing their partner/husband?

A draw. Both started off as strong headed but became soft hearted with their respective partners. I really don't see them henpecking GJ or ZXJ.