If you were fat, you dislike people who are fat. If you were pretty, you dislike people who are pretty. Any truth?
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Things happened so long ago. One cannot remember the details.
I wonder how mosquitoes know which house to visit to find blood.
I'm big and I like big people and other shapes of people. Why be ignorant and judge others just because of their looks, shapes, and sizes when you are not perfect as well? If you don't like fat or pretty people, and you are one or the other, then you have a serious problem. Either you hate yourself because they remind you of you, or jealous that they are better than you. Change that mindset and love yourself. If you are going to make that change, change for yourself and not for others.
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I've heard that what we dislike in others is actually a magnification of what we see bad in ourselves. So it is a subjection problem with self-image more than a physical appearance.
For example, my mum is very thin and always has been thin. But the minute she puts on a bit of weight, she goes crazy and overacts. I am slightly overweight but my general health is otherwise normal. She goes actually believes that both me and my sister are obese and even my dad thinks we need gastric band surgery or we will die of being fat. I find it insulting because both me and my sister are health professionals and we know whether we are healthy or not.
Once in an elevator in HK, I heard these two girls chattering and laughing and saying how HK people are fat and lazy and ugly. I look back at them and truthfully, they aren't that thin and perfect either so I don't know what their problem is. Maybe they are in self denial and find relief in laughing about others so they can forget their own problem.
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It like how some girls hang out at school in groups but there is sometimes one girl that doesn't fit in but still stays with the group. Some of the popular girls her as a clown to make themselves feel better as someone us worse off than them. Then you get the other type where that girl being made fun off puts up with them because she feels that being around popular girls will somehow make her popular as well or better than the other unpopular girls. I just see it as very unhealthy self-perception and self-esteem.
As you get older, one tends to subgroup their friends according to your needs. You have one lot for dinners, one lot for parties and one lot where you really reveal your deepest secrets to. I have a lot of acquaintances from church, work and general life; but I only have a small circle close friends which are enough to get me past the hard times.
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